Greetings. I'm a 32 year old man currently living in New England. I personally believe that almost everything from relationships to schooling to hobbies gives you back proportional to the amount of effort and time you can invest, and all things worthwhile tend to take work. With that in mind, interactions with me tend to go slowly but deeply, though often rather unintentionally laced with innuendo.
I ascribe to a philosophy that the only worthwhile consent is enthusiastic consent. I like inflicting pain, and players in tabletop role-playing games I’ve run may confirm, not only physical. I view scenes like games - they have structure, rules, goals, and establishing all of these early and very clearly is vital to me. Limit-wise, I’m not a fan of scat or domination that requires me making an agenda over the internet. I’m also hilariously bad at humiliation, which I suspect comes from being a giant teddy bear of a human being…. Just a teddy bear with a knife occasionally.
Outside of kink, I love cooking. I grew up in south Louisiana so I do make a lot of Cajun dishes, but I also love making all dialects of Chinese, Vietnamese, and Thai (woks are by far my favorite pan -- so gorram versatile!). I also love animals and volunteered for most of my youth at a wildlife sanctuary that had alligators, big snakes, snapping turtles, and a really old black bear. I also own one cat. Otherwise, I actually went to school to make video games, though graciously I escaped that… less than pleasant… industry. I still do like board games and some indie video games. I also cycle through artistic interests through digital painting, animation, music composition, and stage acting/improv. I have a mild physical disability that makes me walk with a cane sometimes.Hope to hear from you!
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