I'm a 38 year old, gorgeous, plus-sized, funny, smart, leftist pleasure control domme. I am not interested in anything online and I will ask to exchange face pics soon, if that's not something you can do then please don't message me. Read the whole thing or I won't message you back. It helps me cut down on responses.

I am a goddess domme, I adore worship (especially body worship), denial, chastity, orgasm ruining, forced orgasms, and holding your pleasure. I would love to be a keyholder, but it is not required. A female-led relationship is my priority, I know that it is something I deeply desire. Someone to anticipate my needs and make my life easier in exchange for care, dominance, and devotion. Tell me why you want an FLR. My true love language is service. If the idea of service doesn't appeal to you, we are not a match. Without feeling cared for, I'm just a kink dispenser. I am not monogamous, but I will strongly prioritize you. I have a special spot for being shared so cuckolds or stags are strongly preferred. I recognize your submission is a gift and I want to earn it. I'm here to empower and care for you but I'm not afraid to be direct and put you in your place. I love calling you a good boy and watching you light up. I live for your devotion and recognize it's something I have to earn. I know my value and you should know yours. I have no interest in dominating men who are weak.

Limits: CBT, sissification, humiliation, scat, the usual.

I'm a true switch so if you want to dominate sometimes we can work that out. But an FLR is what I want. I am also in a long-term platonic marriage. We are married friends with a long history of polyamory. He knows I'm seeking a serious partner, there is no shadiness.

In my vanilla life I love reading, theatre, stand up comedy, live music, and video games.

If this is something you're interested in, please message me your favorite candy and act of service so I know you read this like a good boy ;-)