Hi there! I'm a soft dom guy with a big orgasm control kink, looking for some sort of connection. In general, the most important part of anything kinky for me fundamentally is helping the other person get off, as its a big part of the way that I connect with someone both emotionally and sexually

The title is a lot, and isn't where I'd start (though if you do find it hot, we can definitely chat), but its definitely something that's extremely hot to think about. I've done it once before in a relationship, where it was intended as a permanent giving up control, and it was just so, so intensely hot. There would always just be the simple fact between us that you would never cum ever again on your own - you'd never get to pick and choose your orgasms. It would always up to me to rub you, and tease you, and help you cum for me. The thought of being able to give you a quick orgasm here and there in the middle of a conversation, and carry on gaming or chatting with you like nothing has really happened, is extremely fun

I want to make clear given the title - this is not an extensive denial/edging kind of a thing, I absolutely love helping people cum - its more about encouraging you, and if you need, letting you feel like that control when you get close is totally in someone elses hands as to whether or not you can cum

I take 'no'/consent very seriously, so I will never push you towards getting off if you can't, and nobody ever has to convince me if you do need to get off. I'm not a hard dom by any stretch of the imagination

Otherwise I'm a relaxed guy who loves chatting about life, politics, the universe and everything otherwise. If you like rimworld multiplayer/stardew valley and those kinds of games then we'll probably get on great there too. I'm also a huge scifi fan (and a giant space nerd), so feel free to ask me about any of that and get to know me generally! I'm a total open book in general

If the title is a bit much for you but you still like my general vibe, I'm really just looking for nice and possibly hot conversations, so I'd still like to get to know you. I've got tonnes more information in my history, and a full kinklist too

Kinks: You having a nice time, orgasm control, edging, spanking, thigh humping, degradation/praise, dirty talk, good conversation (is that a kink?), girls watching porn

Limits: Noncon, cheating, people with partners (even if they know), Daddy, breeding