Hi. I am a sub leaning switch looking preferably for another switch, but also, if you’re strictly a dom, or even a sub then I’m still open to talking, but obviously, it’s a case by case basis for compatibility.

I’ve posted on here before, with no particular success, most because I had some soul searching to do. I’m looking for a primarily online, but preferably Midwest located person to play, write, talk and nerd out with about bdsm and erotica. I’d be interested in roleplay, tasks, anything either one of us want to try. Ideally, one of us would be like, “hey you wanna try [blank?]” and if we’re both down we’d go ahead and try it out. If you want to try new things with a (mostly) non judgemental person, I’m your guy.

I’m fairly new to the scene, and completely green when it comes to irl play, but have some experience playing online. I have only met one person irl for these purposes before, and it didn’t go well, so it’ll probably be a while before I feel comfortable doing so again, so please keep that in mind.

I’m not particularly attached to any particular dynamic at the moment, I’m a switch but I tend to be sub leaning, mostly because I’m a masochist. One of my biggest fantasies is sort of “domming from the bottom”, and directing someone on how to hurt me, punishing them back, ect. I like the idea of being the very capable assistant of an experienced dom, or training underneath one, but I haven’t had luck in finding anything like that within my boundaries.

I am not looking for a 24/7 dynamic, or a sir, or anything like that, and certainly not looking for someone interested in “taming” me or anything of the sort, but would be interested in exploring scenerios that approximate that.

Straight away, I’m not particularly interested in straight up being insulted/degredated, but there’s a time and a place for everything, and I like being humiliated and put down, but either from a place of correction or mutually understood fun.

If you have weird, unusual, or extremely detailed kinks you need paragraphs to explain, please please send me a message (but omit the gritty details from the first conversation, please), If every time you try to write erotica it turns a little political, we might be best friends.

My hard limits tend to change based on the context and scene. A big one is no bodily fluids in my mouth, no marks, and no blood. I also won’t eat anything gross or cut my hair. I am not interested in ddlg or ageplay, however, infantalization and degradation around those things are interesting to me. I’m not particularly interested in feederism, but it can be interesting under the right circumstances.

I’m black, 5’1, curvy, NB, and I will not shave lmao. Ideally you’d be around my age, not younger. I will exchange sfw photos and videos with proof if we chat, and will expect you to do the same. I obviously am not looking for exclusivity and would not expect that from you.

If you’re interested, let me know, and if you’re not, and you just wanna chat, also let me know, I’m always looking to make new friends.