Putting myself out there. Local to Orange County, CA and would prefer in person, but open to online. Willing to commute a bit if the vibe is right.

I'm poly/ENM, currently in the beginnings of a divorce from the spouse I've been with for 8 years, while also recovering from a brief but intense period with a dismissive avoidant partner. I'm happily finding myself again and making good progress, but I'm looking for someone I can be vulnerable with. Someone I can trust that won't use me for my kindness, betray me when I give affection, manipulate and shame me when they fail to communicate their needs, and be cold with me when I make them a part of my world.

More about me: - 39, 5'10", 180 lbs, average build, brown hair, green eyes, glasses - Work in the entertainment industry and local theatre - Musician - Gamer - Content Creator - Tech nerd - Aviation/space enthusiast - Sci-Fi/fantasy - Cosplay

What I'm looking for: Preference for 25 brainy, short (5'3" or less), petite, super nerdy, dancer/gymnast build, tatted alt/grunge/goth/witchy, kinky weebs with light eyes, fair skin, a great ass, hip dips, D cup or smaller, fun hair colors (bleach blonde counts) into going to metal concerts or any combo of the above. Be emotionally available, and have your own life and interests outside of our dynamic. DDF is non- negotiable, if meeting in person.

What you get from me: I want to hear all about you. I don't have a lot of money, but I will more than make up for that in the amount of attention and affection you'll get from me. I want to earn your trust and respect, and treat you like a princess. I want to make you feel soft, cared for, and like a good girl. Dress you up, show you off, make you squirm with all of my subtle teasing in public, and then take you home and make you wonder how you got so lucky to have someone pleasure you like I do. You'll get all the aftercare and cuddling you want. Then we go about our lives and text each other whenever we can. I'd like to meet up in person whenever the mood strikes, which would ideally be at least once a week. We could make a regular night of it.

If you are a bit of a brat, I'm happy to tame you, but no hardcore brats as I find that annoying. You can be a bit clingy/needy but I want you to be able to dial it back and be your own person.

Open to kink (bondage, breeding, praise, and sensory deprivation, to name a few) so let's talk about it. I'm very much into nylon/pantyhose/tights/fishnets, so I hope you like them too. If you're on the fence about them, I'll show you how sensual they can be. You'll love how much they drive me wild, and I'll show you how much they do.

Feel free to ask questions if you're looking for specifics or have any questions. I'm happy to send pics, and I would request you send some back. I look forward to hearing from you 😊