All day and all night long. Aight, with my poor attempt at humor out the way, let's begin.
First, some absolute requirements because I'm not interested in wasting anyone's time, especially my own.
- Must be afab. Nothing against those that aren't, it just doesn't float my boat.
- Must be at, near, or willing to eventually relocate to where I am.
- Must not have any other male partner in any capacity. I'm not being judgy about promiscuity here, I'm possessive and just don't like to share with other males.
A little bit of the more important things about myself.
Polyam & a married father of 2. The type of person I am is a cross between a nerd and a y'allternative redneck with the personality of a black cat that occasionally gets into the catnip. More of an upfront open book than someone willing to be discreet about things cause I don't care to try to hide things I see nothing wrong with and I don't do anything I see as wrong with that said I don't go out of my way to broadcast mine or anyone else's business but I'll answer a question truthfully. I smoke, both tobacco and cannabis, not all that big on drinking. Physically I'm 5'8, brown eyed, brown hair, beard and mustache with some white and gray thrown in. I keep my hair on the shorter side these days and I wear contacts/glasses. In decent shape, not quite a dad-bod I guess but I ain't got a six-pack either.
Physical attraction is important so sfw pictures, at the least, will be exchanged to ensure we're both attracted to each other.
A little bit about what I'm looking for.
- I'm looking for a long term serious relationship with the potential of having children should we decide so later on.
- Someone that's ideally younger and it doesn't matter how much as long as you're 18 .
- I have a preference for pale gingers and those with unnatural hair colors but it doesn't really matter so much to me, just a nice to have thing.
- Someone that is in relatively good shape, I don't mind a little overweight and it really depends on your frame and proportions.
- I have a preference for shorter women but this is another nice to have, I'm secure in my masculinity so I can handle a taller woman just as well.
- I'd prefer a nerdy but also somewhat outdoorsy woman. I do camp, hunt, and have a thing for fucking outdoors.
In my view there's two primary types of subs, the one that chooses to submit and the one that needs to be subjugated. I want the former (a little brattiness is fine) as I don't particularly care to force people to do anything. I want you to have a choice and I want you to choose to be obedient. I want someone that's willing to do whatever I tell them even if I may never actually tell them to do it; I want to be your number one priority, a god that you worship and serve not out of fear of punishment but out of love for my affection and attention.
I prefer Sir over Daddy but a good girl can call me that on occasion. I prefer to praise rather than degrade as I don't associate many of the things others do with being filthy or wrong so to speak. With that said, I find the more pleasure the woman I'm with is having the more pleasure I have so I'm fairly open to doing things that don't necessarily turn me on beyond it turning you on. So we can discuss likes and limits. However I will not do anything that involves piss or shit.
Feel free to contact me either by dm or chat. I will be getting ready for work here shortly so it's likely I won't respond very quickly.
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