I have posted on here before, and each time I have the same old issues - people don't bother reading my post fully (even short posts), they end up being married/partnered up, are only looking for online play/to collect pictures or have zero experience - so please only message me if you are fully single, looking for real life meets, and you have experience with D/s dynamics - if you are wondering why I don't respond to you, the answer is probably in this post. Age preference: 30 - 45.

Phew! Now that's out the way, onto the reason I am posting here... I am looking for a Dom who would be willing to train and guide me on my submissive journey at a slow and steady pace. I am autistic, so it may take me awhile to adapt to certain things, so having a Dom who is understanding and patient is super important to me! My kink experience to date is very limited, I have never had a D/s dynamic - I've had a small amount of tame kinky play in the past, these experiences unlocked something in me, and since then I have wanted to fully explore my submissive side within a long term D/s dynamic. Ideally I am looking for a dynamic with clear rules, daily tasks, structure, discipline and a dynamic where the Dom has pretty much full control over me (within agreed limits, of course). I feel that being autistic and how chaotic my life can be at times, I need a firm, strong, confident Dom/sadist to guide me through life. I have many kinks including: impact play, restraints, blindfolds, gags, nipple torture, rough sex, anal play, edge play, fear play, breath play, CNC, eye contact/speech restrictions, orgasm control, denial, and much more! *It's worth mentioning, I am fairly inexperienced sexually - I've only had 4 long term super vanilla partners in the past, so there are many things I am yet to try!

A bit about me: I live alone, but due to my autism I wouldn't feel comfortable hosting at mine, my house is my safe space/sanctuary so I never really let people over. I work part time, I drive, I love spending time with my friends! I love travelling, cooking, baking, dining out, music, comedy, and long country walks. I've love to be able to find someone to go travelling with both abroad and little weekend breaks away, meals out, long walks through the woods, but also enjoy cosy nights in, perhaps with a bit of kink thrown in the mix! Physically - I am 5'3, white, curvy, have auburn hair, hazel eyes and often wear glasses. I am very much a plain Jane, I don't do make up or fake tan, fillers, etc. I am attracted to guys with that 'dilf' like look, who are tall, in good shape, and preferably have their own hair and teeth! I would not be willing to date anyone who is also autistic - this isn't meant to cause offence, but due to previous bad experiences, I would not be willing to do it again, sorry.

If the thought of me doesn't put you off/scare you away, then please feel free to message me! Please note that I will not share any pictures until we have got to know each other a bit and are comfortable with each other, and I won't perform any act of submission or follow any tasks until we have met in person and established a dynamic. I have a few posts on my profile with more information about me, what I am looking for and my autism.

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