Hi! I’m a 29F, new to the scene and looking for a dom/mentor! This is QUITE a long post, but I want to be thorough about what I want so there’s no confusion(or not much confusion at the very least).

I have a bit of experience in the master/slave and DDLG dynamics, and I’d love to explore DDLG a bit more, but without the age regression(no diapers, pacifiers, stuffies, etc).

A bit about physical me: 5’7”, slim/average body with assets to match, blue eyes, and an in between of soft brown and subtle auburn hair. I’m basically an average white girl, but have been described by friends and family as “very pretty”.

Kink wise I’m pretty open minded- free use, degradation, denial, edging, humiliation, breeding, CNC. My limits would be scat, toiletries, and anything illegal or permanent, and feet, esp feet, are a hard NO.

Outside of kink I love going for walks, drying flowers(so pretty), reading(currently flitting between the Harry Potter series again and the GOT books), true crime podcasts(although I’ll listen to Duncan Trussel Family Hour now and again), anime(AOT and Hell’s Paradise are two of my faves) and gaming(mostly Dead by Daylight or Stardew, but BG3 has been a fave of mine recently), and it’d be a plus if my futuredom occasionally joined me in these hobbies/activities. I have a few pets I’d love to brag about to you in dms, they’re my whole world🩵. I love endlessly talking about things I find interesting, such as anything GOT related, plot holes in Harry Potter, theories and thoughts about AOT, the different meanings of flowers, and I love getting to know the interests of others.

My personal style/aesthetic is a bit strewn. I mostly wear sweats nowadays(a lot more comfortable for a 10 hour shift😝 and bc I lost a lot of my belongings in a flooding🥲). Before the flood I’d say my style changed between grunge and soft core depending on my mood. I don’t wear a lot of make up, and I don’t really do up my hair(not to say I don’t put in effort, I just like simplicity)- just putting that out there so there’s no disappointment when pictures finally come into play(I am planning on rebuilding my wardrobe it’ll just take a LONG time).

I’m a quiet person and quite shy when first getting to know someone, so please be patient and understanding on that part.

I did NOT graduate high school due to unfortunate life events. I’m happy to go more into this in DMs, but please know I am in no way uneducated or stupid, and I can hold an intelligent conversation, and prefer it(my mom is a teacher, so I think even despite the lack of a diploma, it doesn’t measure my intelligence in the slightest).

What I’m not looking for: Cheating and ghosting: if you’re mature enough to be active in this lifestyle, you’re mature enough to end things in an adult way.

Polyamory: it’s just not for me.

Abuse hidden beneath kink: Pretty self explanatory

What I am looking for:

Eventual IRL. This is important to me to have as a goal for the future, so if it is not something you’re interested in, I don’t see us working out(I hope that doesn’t sound mean🥲)

A partner not just in BDSM or D/S. I want not just a dom, but someone I can talk to outside of scenes and play:).

Patience: I am NEWer to the entire scene. Patience is required on both behalf’s for this to work for me.

Communication: I understand 24/7 communication isn’t always plausible, but I won’t do relationships where I only hear from the other once a week.

Mutual respect for boundaries and limits. An absolute must.

Preferably in the US since I do want eventual IRL, but out of country isn’t completely out of the question if we click. My “big goal” is to eventually be a house wife, or something in those terms, but not an absolute or immediate want.

Age isn’t a huge factor, but I do prefer men a bit older than I am.

Pictures off the bat will not happen, don’t ask. Again, building trust and boundaries. I would not ask you to send any either, but a quick piece about what you look like would absolutely suffice instead! Pictures are NOT out of the question, it just will not happen IMMEDIATELY.

Almost forgot: The kind of personality I’m most drawn to is a man who’s respectable and respectful of those around him, regardless of social standings. Blatant and unwarranted disrespect is super unattractive to me. A man who’s attentive, caring, and soft is more what I lean towards in terms of my “type”.

Last of all, please know “new” doesn’t correlate into “naive”. I do know how to spot a fake dom. Formalities and titles are not demanded or immediately given. Rules are not handed out first message. Demanding nudes as proof of who I am screams red flag. Just as much as a sub earns, a dom must earn trust from his/her sub. I will know you as a person before anything else. Any of the above in the first message will be ignored.

Please reach out if any piece of this post resonates with you! Please put some effort into your first message, as well as your favorite Looney Tunes character OR your favorite book so I know you read this thoroughly. Please also include what you’re looking for in a dynamic. Can’t wait to talk with you!