That's all I ask.

I don't expect it to happen overnight however. There will have to be some work, effort and training but I'm sure we can get you to that most wonderful of points.

Where you are desperate for my touch - whether it's hard or soft. Where my words make you melt like butter. Where you become so desperate to please me.

And if you think "that will never be me" then don't worry because I love a challenge.

Moving on to who I am for now though I''m a younger millennial so yes I love my emo music but I don't own any skinny jeans.

I play the drums, a bit of rugby and go to the gym so I'm not in terrible shape. I'm also a massive nerd - mainly comics, anime and fantasy though I can be interested in almost anything, especially if someone else is passionate about it.

Also I'm a lawyer so my 9-5 involves me dressed in a suit if that's your thing...

But as to what you came here for...

As is probably clear and goes without saying, I'm a dom. I love taking control, earning someone's submission and occasionally forcing it when needed and agreed. I'm looking for someone who I can take out for dinner and nobody knows that you have the word "slut" written beneath your dress. Nobody knows that the little choker you wear covers my handmarks and nobody knows that if I can't wait to get you home I will be taking you in the bathroom here and now.

I've tried various things across the spectrum of kink and domming from ddlg, petplay, soft and hard and I try to encompass all of that in what I do together with being a pleasure dom. Every dynamics different and it's important to find out what's fun and works for us

If you're looking for specifics my kinks include bondage, breath play, edging and denial, impact play, CNC, oral (giving and receiving), public play and anal plus more besides!

Limits are scat, gore, needles and anything illegal.

As to what I'm looking for that's an open ended question and I don't want to miss out on something that could be incredible by limiting what I'm looking for!

Ultimately though there needs to be a mental attraction as well as a physical one so I would like to have something in common with you to talk about outside of kink and be able to swap pictures.

If you like what you've read then feel free to send me a message and who knows where it will go from there...

• Trig