I’m an experienced submissive looking for their dream DD/lg dynamic. Local would be ideal, but I’m not beyond an online long-distance arrangement with someone I really connect with.

About Me: * ENM: I am married and have a boyfriend. I will not stop being poly. If you are not open to ENM/poly then don’t waste my time * Experienced sub of 9 years. Primary archetypes: little, brat, masochist, pleasure sub, princess * Busy graduate student juggling classes and work; my schedule is weird sometimes * Nerdy as hell. I love video games, board games, ttrpgs, going to Renn Faires, reading, watching tv/movies/anime. * Shorty. No really I’m like 5’1”ish. * On the heavier side of chubby. Sorry not sorry. If soft snuggly tummies and squishy thick thighs aren’t your thing, you need not apply. I am working on trying to get back into a little bit better of shape and tone up but I don’t have any aspirations of being “skinny”. * Pixie cut brown hair, but I’m growing one side out til I get bored or the dysphoria kicks in whichever comes first. Sometimes there’s blue or purple streaks thrown in, right now I’ve got some teal fading out. Glasses. * Love an excuse to get all dressed up and dolled up. * Poledancer/aerialist when I can fit classes into my schedule. * AuDHD as hell. Part of the reason I thrive in a caregiver/little dynamic is the structure it provides. * Kinks: I have a lot but here’s a few of the top hits: impact, taboo roleplay, ageplay, CNC, sensation play, petplay (bunny), free use, bondage, orgasm control * Non-binary femme leaning. They/she pronouns. * Kinky peer educator so I know my shit and I’ll know if you don’t. What I’m Looking For: * An EXPERIENCED Daddy who knows what it means to be in a DD/lg dynamic. * Someone to care about me and nurture me who can be both soft and firm depending on what the situation calls for. * Someone who wants a dynamic for more than just the sexual aspects. Rules, rewards, punishments, support. * You MUST be okay with interacting with and nurturing my littlespace. This includes the non-sexual stuff (ie: I’m not into just ageplay as a kink). * Patience. I had a very wonderful DD/lg dynamic for just under a year come to a very abrupt and rather painful end; I will want to move slowly and really make sure we’re a good long-term fit. * A friend. Like I said, this is about more than just the bedroom side of things. If I can’t connect with you then I can’t be your sub.