Yes, I realize it's kind of a cutesy post title (I couldn't resist), but it captures reasonably well what I'm looking for here.

I think the dynamic I'm looking for is pretty different from most posts on here, but perhaps it will appeal to you. I'm looking to get to know somebody as friends, where we have fun lighthearted conversations about interests, life, etc, but with the twist of mixing in elements of power and submission. We'll have normal casual conversations and talk as equals, but interspersed in those I'll give you orders when the mood strikes (rules, tasks, etc) and like the good submissive you are, you'll promptly obey them.

The types of tasks I intend to give you won't be your standard sexually-oriented tasks (edging, spanking, and the like), but will more focus on the mental aspects of submission. I want to humiliate and embarrass you, make you blush, make you feel submissive and obedient, and emphasize the power dynamics of this fun little arrangement.

Some things I'd like to incorporate are humiliation (think more along the lines of embarrassing yourself than sexualizing yourself), rules/restrictions, tedious/boring/pointless tasks, mild pain/discomfort, pet play (for the humiliation aspect), begging, and other things along those lines. Hopefully you get excited by the act of submitting and obeying, and humiliating yourself for somebody else's amusement. Like I mentioned in the post title, I see potential for these tasks to be non-sexual, because I want to play with your mind more than anything.

I'd like for it also to be somewhat playful and casual. There's something fun and kinky about sharing normal vanilla conversations, while knowing that at any moment you could be ordered to get down on your knees and wait for further instructions. As your friend, I'll be kind, easygoing, and lighthearted. As you dom, I'll be devious, strict, and maybe even a bit cruel -- all in good fun, of course (at least for one of us).

ABOUT ME: I'm 37m from the US (EST), 5'10, white, average body type. In the summer, I've been spending a lot of time gardening, but I have a variety of hobbies that I'd be happy to share as we get to know each other. I'm happy to share a picture to verify.

ABOUT YOU: You can be any age, race, or body type (18 of course), as long as some of these mental dynamics appeal to you, and you're a decent communicator. You don't have to have much/any experience, as long as you are eager to explore this type of dynamic.

Again, I know this is a little different, but if you think you might be interested, send me a message with a little about yourself and why this appeals to you, and we can go from there. Bonus points if you include a specific scenario/task you'd enjoy being made to do, to help give me an idea of your interested.