I’m seeking to explore my submissive identity and desires within the context of a caring and committed relationship. I’ve only ever had vanilla relationships until now, and while I’m interested in one day working up to TPE, the process will be slow. I’m really looking for someone who’s willing to take their time and get to know me, inside and out; all sides—kinky and vanilla. Ultimately I’m looking for forever, but I’m not in a rush (at least, I’m trying not to rush). Eventually I want to be a homemaker, possibly a mother, work part-time at most and write my damn memoirs.

Things to know about me: I go to ACA meetings (Adult Children of Alcoholics). It’s a 12-step program facilitating recovery from childhood abuse and trauma, and it’s helping me a lot. I want to get sober from weed, although that has not happened yet. I currently work full-time at a nonprofit. I love to write, especially journaling and pen pal letters; I play Animal Crossing, the Sims 4 and Cities Skylines; I love board games, discussing big ideas, questioning long-held beliefs and goat cheese. In no particular order. I’m 5’4, 150 lbs, short-haired brunette with glasses. In high school I was the “weird anime kid” and in college I was an over-achieving, passionate academic who studied French, philosophy and sociology primarily.

What I’m looking for: I am new to kink, without much in-person experience. Dynamic-wise, I think I crave a Daddy Dom with a serious side. I have never considered myself a little, but I have tendencies and it’s something I want to explore. I also enjoy the idea of pet play, water sports, breeding, female inferiority, cock worshipping and more. My propensity is more for the mental than the physical; I seek to feel and be treated subordinately for the mental aspect. Limits include scat, extensive bondage and physical pain worse than a pinch or ass-slap (I’m really not a masochist).

What I’m seeking is safety and security, at the end of the day, as well as personal growth and, of course, love. Psychologically, being owned makes me feel more secure in the affections and attention of the Dom. I’m seeking someone who wants to support me in becoming my best self. I’m looking for a passionate and enduring connection.

Let me know if interested!