Hey hi :3 I got shy and I've been thinking about posting this again for a while via lurking and finally got the courage once more so here goes.

I guess I want to get things out of the way that might be a deal breaker for someone. First off, I'm non-binary but afab. I use they/it/he pronouns since I'm flexible between those. Secondly, I marked this post as for F, since I'm a little hesitant about dealing with cis men. Due to some bad experiences in the past and just personal preference I lean more into women and other queer people as a heavy preference. Usually it's just easier lol. And last, pictures and videos are a hard no for me. It comes down to multiple reasons and if you are really that curious, I don't mind answering if you ask. A value honesty so I'll always be honest with you.

Anyways, on to what I'm looking for. It's rather hard to articulate what I want due to embarrassment I feel about it and because although I know some of what I want, I don't know all of what I want. In short, I want someone to own my sexuality. The dynamic I want hinges mostly on orgasm control, at least that I know of. I don't want much past that. Just a domme to take that pesky decision of when I get pleasure or not out of my control. Well, within reason and consent, of course. That's the majority of it I guess and it's kinda simple I believe, and I'm honestly open to more since I'm still learning what I like and what I don't.

In terms of like, what I like, I enjoy (obviously) orgasm control, edging, degradation and praise (balanced!!), and a bittt of pet play. I also have a preference in regards to that. Not gonna lie, the list of 'for sures' here is short but that's because I'm still discovering a lot of what I like.

Though I have limits too, those being sending pictures (as mentioned before), anything to do with toilet play, daddy/mommy type play and titles, as well as feet. Being enby but afab I also must mention that being referred to as a girl or something is sure fire fastest way to make me uncomfortable. There's definitely more here too and I tend to be open minded but I could just be forgetting something here or I'm introduced to something new I've never heard of and don't vibe with.

I guess the last thing I have to add is, while I aim for some kind of dynamic with someone, being friends in some capacity would be important to me. Even with the somewhat consistent kink dynamic I'd like. If we don't click on that level I feel it would be hard to match. I guess at the end of the day, what I'm looking for is rather simple and relaxed.

Anyway, hopefully I didn't scare anyone off because I'd love to hear from you :3 bye bye