Hey, thank you for opening my ad, before getting started I am going to list out a few disclaimers.

Full transparency I am married, I am in NO position to leave my marriage at this time, and to be honest I am not sure when I will be able to. Please don't let this deter you as I have plenty of time to create the perfect dynamic with you. (Bonus points if you're in a similar situation) While I'm geographically located in the PA/NJ region, I do not care where you're located as long as you have the ability to meet at some point down the line. I am looking for ONE long-term submissive. Outside of kink I am looking for my best friend. Someone who I can trust and someone who can trust me. So please do NOT message me if you just want 15 minutes of roleplay. Okay If I still have your attention: If people were going to describe me you'd hear that I am intelligent, educated, confident, put together, well-spoken, active, full of humor and a great conversationalist. Physically I am 5'7 with brown hair and brown eyes who is in shape. I take care of myself both physically and hygienically.

What I'm looking for: I would love for a 24/7 TPE dynamic. I want you to be loved through abuse and submission. I want to make you feel inferior, but I also want to praise you and take care of you. I want to be able to collar you. I want to shower you with aftercare as well.

I would categorize my kinks as darker: which include TPE, orgasm control, forced orgasms, CnC, free use, choking, slapping, spitting rule/task, ownership, anal, degradation/praise more.

I also have a set of limits which include: Beastiality, Incest, age-regression during sex, diapers, pacifiers, blood, scat, vomit, making you question your worth to me.

What does being a Dom mean to me: Being your Dom would have actual meaning to me. I don't want after one hour of chatting with you to give me your submission, your submission has to also have value. I need to earn the right to your submission. Being your Dom would mean I am trusting you with 100% of me and giving you my all. As your Dom, I am your leader, your enforcer, and your protector. I will respect and cherish your submission. I will never take advantage of you. While this might not seem the most dominate but I am there to sit down and listen to you, I am empathetic, a good listener, and I am genuine. Just because you gave me your submission doesn't mean I get to force an agenda on you, nor do I get to demand sexting sessions every minute of the day. Just because I'm the Dom doesn't mean I can't sit down with you and make sure your needs are being met. I want to be able to talk to you and see how we can improve our dynamic. As your Dom your submission means the world to me.

For more specifics with that I'm looking for:

• Please be between 27-50
• I find it easiest to talk to people on EST or CST time zones.
• You should be honest with what your looking for, and you should be able to communicate well.
• You should be able to hold a vanilla conversation, and have the ability to chat more than 5 messages a day.
• Monogamous in the dynamic. As I am married I don't mind you being in a vanilla relationship, however I should be your one and only Dom/Kink partner.

Being a Dom has meaning to me, so giving me your submission should mean something as well. I am very serious about this relationship. If you are interested please reach out to me in chat or DMs.