Before you get too miffed by the word “slut” let’s talk about what it means to me. It means you enjoy your sexuality, your kinks, and everything that goes along with it. You’re not embarrassed by the idea that you enjoy your body, others enjoying it, and that sexual pleasure comes from more than just physical play—in fact, I’d argue that your brain is the key to everything. The most important word is the possessive “My” in front of Cherished Slut. I want you to be MY slut, not his or theirs, and with that comes my attention, pleasure, affection, desire to protect, and my desire to possess.

I want you to be yourself, whatever that is. Don’t be afraid to tell me what you do or don’t like. Don’t be afraid to take a risk and message me thinking you don’t have enough experience or that we might not be a fit. You just never know chemistry until you take a chance on connecting honestly and with enthusiasm.

I’m hard-working. I give a lot of time and attention. I love words and the power they have. I have a high sex drive. I love seduction and femininity. I’m very open minded and hope you are too. I’m an adult and I don’t mind being in a position of guidance, authority, or responsibility: having a submissive IS a responsibility. I have experience and welcome yours or come with none and enjoy the journey.

As for kinks, I like to explore everything and leave doors open rather than closed. Consent is everything and I refuse to damage anybody in the pursuit of short-term pleasure. Some basics do apply: no blood, extreme anything, nothing to damage your health, safety, or privacy. To be fair, we might disagree what extreme is so let’s just talk about it.

Besides the seriousness of exploring as consensual adults, it’s important to remember that this should be fun and enjoyable. I should add to your life and not take away from it. Life is short so let’s enjoy it.