My username checks out, it helps to understand a little more about the style of domination you can expect.

With an impellent stream of consciousness, I am here looking for a genuine connection with someone that, just like me, misses or craves the long term and meaningful side of a bdsm themed dynamic that reminds of DDLG and of Dom/Sub roles.

If you're here you're probably interested in having a dynamic just like that and in this post I want to go through some of the points I consider important to keep in mind at first, in order to have a better idea of who I am.

One common misconception when people read that I am a gentle Dom is considering this style as not strict enough, but let me say it is not the case. I generally do not like labels but totally see myself as someone who loves obedience and sense of ownership towards my partner. Things that I want to achieve through some agreed on, healthy and playful rules. I can crave control while being a caring person that likes to check up on you often during the day and gladly supporting you when you need to vent. Being here in a BDSM forum does not mean I just crave sex, the personal side of this should be as important.

It is also important to point out why I am doing this online. Of all I should mention that online does not mean a side thing nor less meaningful. It is just easier. If you have faced bigotry or hypocrisy you know how these things go: people ro not accept or show their interest for sex related stuff so easily but online, connecting with like-minded kinksters is not that big of a deal.

Over my many years of experience as a Dom I've started to dislike the word expectations when it comes to this world. When approaching me, you are not about to face or check a list of 'things I expect from the perfect sub' because this goes entirely against my perception of genuine. As I'm writing my only goal is to summon some interest and have a conversation, finding out about common interests, chemistry and mutual attraction between two people, without starting off with roles. But I absolutely love a good banter and having a laugh, you should definitely start off with a dad joke or a cheesy pick up line!

Last but not least, let me go through some of my kinks real quick so that even sexually you have an idea of who I am. I am gentle and respectful even in bed but definitely have a slightly sadistic vein within myself. Light impact play, light pain in any form are huge turn on, as well as mixing praising and degrading (good girl/dirty slut kind of). Anal, cum play, lingerie, dressing and DDLG are all things I'm interested in but not fundamental to involve.

As I said before, if this got you wondering about me, don't hesitate to get in touch. I'll be waiting.