My biggest turn on is seeing women in public who are wearing outfits that are just slightly inappropriate. For example I was walking out of the cell phone store last weekend when a girl walks in wearing a white tank top with no bra and her pierced nips were poking through. It was relatively subtle and still an appropriate outfit for a warm day, but obviously on the slutty side.

I find this kind of public play to be a huge rush when we're going about our normal day (at dinner, running errands, etc) and it turns me on like crazy when my partner does it. Most women are too shy to attract any extra attention though. So I'm hoping to find a partner who also finds the rush very enjoyable. I'm also big on subtle touching in public if we can find a nice dark corner 😉

In the long run I have fantasies of turning my partner into my perfect trophy wife (hopefully not in a controlling way but in a fun sexy way). I've always had a fantasy of paying for my partners boobs, for example.

I'm actually not into anything too crazy in the bedroom but am definitely a pleasure Dom. I like being in control and giving lots of orgasms, but also feel like sometimes I just want you and need to use you. I've found I'm most compatible with subby doll types who enjoy a bit of objectification and degradation, along with praise and rewards to go with it. With the right partner I'm extremely loyal and giving.

Outside of kink: stable homeowner with a white collar job in San Francisco. 6'2", keep fit. Olive skin, dark hair. D&D free. Wine lover and trying California wines is a favorite hobby. Also into the gym, and play around with making electronic music on the side. Open to travel for dating as M-F I'm pretty busy and don't mind flying weekends, but local is obviously preferred If you're interested send a pic and I'll return the favor 😉