Well, hello there,

I told myself a while ago, I would not need a post myself, since there are so many F4X posts coming in, that seem to fit well. But with the unpleasantries I encountered, I think it’s time to turn the tables and see what making a post turns out to be. So if I bore you to death with the length of the post. I blame inexperience in posting😉

About me: I just turned 36 and I can still not understand when that happened. I have a beard which I keep in varying stages of well trimmed and “oh my fuck when did I become a lumberjack?”, no tattoos, no piercings, blueish eyes, brown hair, I am not sporting a six pack but I hit the gym on the regular so I am fit but I am by no means an Instagram fitness influencer. I am in Europe, so if you are here as well and have time in the day, awsome. Otherwise I am happy to keep you up all night chatting if you are in the US or elsewhere😉 I have a professional career, so I won’t be online 24/7, but I also have the freedom to pick my phone up anytime during the day (if I am not j a meeting). I am married and my wife is fine with me playing out my D-type online. I don’t care about your relationship status, as long as you have time and devotion for a dynamic. I had great dynamics with single girls, single moms and married women alike. In my opinion it has to fit on an individual level rather than ruling out a whole group of people.

I have experience with different kinds of online dynamics. Girls who were newer as well as ones who knew quite well what they were looking for. The development of my sub is a key focus of mine. Making her into the best version of herself and working on her goals, all the while turning her into my perfect little toy. So if you have goals, need a mentor or someone who holds you accountable and tracks your progress, know I can keep you there.

I don’t really care much about the name of the dynamic we would be aiming for, and I am not a fan of lables. But with my focus I tend to gravitate towards Master/slave and TPE. I do enjoy the psychological side of the power exchange, however I of course enjoy the sexual side of your submission as well. So pictures, videos and voice notes are very welcome.

About you: I am of the opinion that mutual physical attraction is important. I am not looking for a 18 yo blonde hourglass girl. If you have a nice face, are at a healthy weight for your age and height, know that there are drinks without sugar in it and how your stove turns on you are already 90% there 😉 If you are witty and have a character that exceeds overly crass nudes, do reach out and let’s see if we click.