I wanted to get that out of the way first. Yes, married, and happy to explain the dynamics and reasoning why I'm here privately if you're interested.

I'm looking for a relationship purely online that stretches into and improves our dailies. I'm not a cold person by nature, and so connection is key, and I'm willing to spend the time needed to establish that. I've been burned by someone recently, or so it seems, and I want someone genuine who believes we all have feelings and emotions.

I'd love to meet a pretty kitty who aligns with some of this:

• Single, or fully separated, preferably but willing to talk
• Open book - loves to communicate her emotions
• Fun and flirty - love to use emojis, sarcasm when we're being playful, etc
• Physically in good shape - While I'm not so worried about breast size, ass size, etc, I do prefer someone who is in good shape, or if a little thick, working on herself and wants my help with that too. No offense to my BBW friends, but it's just not something I get excited by, and I want to be excited for my sub.
• Ability to communicate regularly is preferred, especially during daytime hours (desk jobs, phone work, might be best)
• WANTS to be controlled, CRAVES attention, LOVES praise

About myself:

• Controlling - (duh) - I want to explore elements of TPE such as clothing choice, routines, diet, fitness, tasks & assignments, etc. as well as the sexual aspects
• Reliable - I run my own business, set most of my own schedule, but the marriage dynamic mentioned does require attention of course, which will be discussed via chat/dm
• Possessive - I'll admit it's a flaw. I'm impatient too, but trying hard to work on that with the right person.
• Love to read, write (obviously haha), help animals, help my community, listen to music, watch films, travel and more
• Can be effusive with praise - I love to celebrate your wins, comfort your losses and be not just a dom/daddy, but a friend

I'd prefer to discuss kinks privately, and can provide a full list. As thorough as this list seems, I'm actually relatively new to the dynamic, am studying every day on things, and would love someone I can learn and grow with as we progress. I don't mind someone experienced either, of course. I'll answer all chats or dm's respectfully because even if I feel we aren't a good fit, ,your time and interest is important to me.