I’m writing this late, tucked up under a handmade quilt, surrounded by pillows, stuffed animals, and my two beautiful idiot cats. I’m a nestmaker. I’ve been contemplating how to write this post for the past few days, unsure of the proper words to describe this guilty weird desire of mine. I’m sleepy now and I think maybe more honest for it, so here we go.

There’s something about being called your Pet that worms its way under my skin. Makes me feel itchy, needy, desperate to please. A pup is (hu)man’s best friend, and I want to be yours. Sure, I might get rowdy, barking and nipping when I’m feeling particularly naughty or needy for attention, but in the end there’s nothing I’d rather do than stumble along at your heels, hanging on your every word. We are, after all, best friends :3

about me:

28, nonmonog partnered, nonbinary w vag ← (dont call me a woman and we’re good, I don’t mind “gendered” compliments)

photos here - fullbody pics included to show I am chubbo, I know not everyone is down with it !!

non sexy passions include drawing/painting, music, community support, learning new skills. I’m a very hands-on person. gardening (veggie psychoactive), poetry, terrarium design, animal care. I do smoke weed, if that bothers you pls don’t message :3

what i’m looking for:

all genders, 25 .

someone who loves the details. who wants to approach this relationship like a puzzle, poking and prodding until we find each other’s sneaky buttons. I want, above all, a close friendship. someone to chat with on slow days. someone honest. goodnights and good mornings. photos of your day, a dumb bumper sticker you saw or the giant spider in your shower. intimacy, trust. it’s a lot to ask for, I know. I promise to return your efforts, to be good for you too. to encourage you and send you silly voice messages at 3am. my crinkled and pillowmarked face when I wake up. etc.

But when I’m in the mood, or you need to blow off steam, or when we snark back and forth until the tension is too thick to breathe, I want more. I want you to make me desperate. I want to be good for you, your eager plaything. I want to be wanted.

general kinks:

power dynamics, cnc and coercion, praise, teasing playfulness, intensity. rough hands and sweet words. Verbosity, eloquence. I get off more on well written teasing and playfulness than anything else.

please reach out if you feel moved to do so :3 preferably with pics so we’re on equal footing. I’m really looking forward to meeting you 💖