Hello there. In an effort to keep this at least a little organized, I'm going to try and break this down rather than just throw words at you.

I am: - 31. - a teacher. - a student, getting my master's degree. - a parent. - 5'11 and plus sized. - willing to swap selfies to verify as early as you're comfortable. - a bit of an introvert. - ideally looking for a relationship that can evolve into in person, be that visits or your eventual relocation. - very busy, but I make plenty of time for important things and people. - very into music, specifically those with lyrics I can identify with. I can enjoy at least a little something from most genres. - a writer, with my main hobby being written roleplay. - not particularly feminine, but not masculine either. - interested in history, politics, good conversation, and learning more about things I don't know much about. - do not have it all together all the time, in the way that I think some people expect doms/dommes to.

Kink wise, I: - consent focused. Enthusiastic and continuous consent, please. - am a pleasure domme, first and foremost. My idea of 'punishment' is making you come until you cry. - enjoy receiving photos and videos, when trust has been established. - enjoy the use of a variety of toys/objects - am looking for power exchange in a relationship - am extremely into acts of service/service subs - have a little word bank available for you: orgasm control, overstimulstion, orgasm torture, bondage, toys, begging, double penetration, free use, JOI, ownership, slave/master, intimacy, and probably way more that I'm forgetting at this moment lol. - my limits are very standard, I'm not interested in anything illegal or immoral. I'm also not interested in doing anything to you that you don't want done, or pretend you don't want done, so I suppose CNC is on that limit list for me.

You are: - 21 - a functional adult. You don't have to have it all together, because I don't either. But I cannot save you from whatever it is you may be hoping a dynamic can pull you out of. I can encourage, I can set rules, boundaries, etc. But I cannot fix your problems any more than you could fix anyone else's. - Feminine. This doesn't have to mean ball gowns to the grocery store or daily makeup, but I do enjoy feminine appearances. - a cis woman. - are monogamous/currently unattached - service oriented and eager. I want you to want to do things because it pleases you, not because you're being told. - open to sending pictures and videos when trust has been established. - open/healed enough emotionally to let me in, or be self aware enough to discuss that with me. - (potentially) eventually looking for a relationship that relies heavily under my control/influence, again, once you feel I'm a suitable person to do that for you/us. This isn't a deal breaker, I am open to more short term interactions if that sort of suits our vibe together.

If you feel like you may want to reach out to me, I hope you do. If you send me a genuine message I will respond, even if it's to discuss why I feel we may not be compatible.

When you do reach out, I'd like to know your ASL and what you like to be called, as well as a little about you. Feel free to ask any questions you may have about me. If you're feeling a little stuck/overwhelmed, try this conversation starter snd see where it leads you: Tell me one expectation you have of your dominant partner, and why.

I promise I'm not as serious as this post may have made me seem. I'd love to chat with you 🙂