Hey all, I’m Elias, a 20 y/o trans man looking for exactly what my title says. Let me elaborate; for about three years I’ve been in a dynamic that revolves around me doing most of the work sexually and emotionally. I’m a switch and usually being dominant would be no problem, but in this case that’s all I was doing. I’m burnt out, essentially. I know I could be the perfect sub for the right person, and even though it’s a long shot I wanted to post on here anyways.
What I’m looking for: someone with an actual personality, ideally part of the queer community who can hold a conversation and banter with me. I want someone who also builds a dynamic on connection, and will try to vibe and have a good time with me before we jump into anything. It would be great if you had a caregiver-esque personality, as I could really use the extra doting and attention. I would love for this to be a long term dynamic, and if it potentially led to meeting up down the road I wouldn’t be opposed.
What I’m NOT looking for: people that fetishize me being trans. If you’re only into me because of what I got going on down there, kindly fuck off and find someone else to bother. Crazy weird and sexual flirting right off the bat.
About me: I’m a big fan of horror, music, and cats. Those three things basically make up most of who I am and I could talk your ear off about them any day. I work full time in a really busy leadership position and am constantly breaking my back to do my best in most parts of my life. I’m a big giver, and I just want to find someone that’s the same. I would love an introduction from you if you think we could be compatible!
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