Life is good right now. I’ve got a solid job, good friends, all I’m missing is that fulfillment a dynamic brings. Someone to spoil, to shower in attention, to break down and build back up piece by piece. If you think you’re that someone, then I’m talking to you.

About me (SFW)

I’m a 26 year old guy from the Midwest USA (Michigan, more specifically) working in a STEM field. Physically, I’m 5’11 with a dad bod I’m working on, a wide frame, brown hair and sharp blue-green eyes I never fail to be complimented on. I’d be happy to swap photos upon request.

I’m driven, college educated, a voracious learner, and an awesome anchor for a bar trivia team. I’ve got a growing board game collection, play both too much and not enough D&D, and eagerly await each new episode of Doctor Who, so you could say I’m a nerd. I’m a live music junkie, chronic reader, road trip enthusiast, rusty musician, budget evil scientist, fledgling gym rat, and guilty collector of more hobbies than I know what to do with.

I’m most definitely a hopeless romantic type, which I’ve been told pairs well with my “dad friend” and “golden retriever” energy. I’m the kind of guy who would do anything for the people he cares about (even at the cost of my own sanity, which has definitely come up in therapy).

About Me (NSFW)

My straight-laced appearance and demeanor starkly contrasts with the kinky deviant lurking beneath, a contradiction I enjoy nearly as much as exceeding expectations. I’ve been in the community for a decade now as a dom, in just about every sort of dynamic you could imagine. I have extensive experience in both virtual and in-person dynamics, as well as everything from brats to TPE and all the fun stuff that lays between the two.

As for what I’m like, at baseline I identify as a pleasure daddy dom, with primal and sadistic streaks. I view the sub as having the ultimate power in a dynamic, as they’re the ones surrendering control consensually. It’s the dominant’s role to foster an environment where the sub can safely do this, and I take great pride in my ability to make that happen.

I have a higher-than-average libido, and it definitely doesn’t take much to derail whatever train of thought I might have. My list of kinks is at least a mile long, and my limits are pretty standard. When I said I was a kinky deviant, I definitely wasn’t kidding. I’d be happy to discuss further behind closed doors.

What exactly am I looking for?

You. You can be any kind of submissive with any level of experience. As long as you’re eager and willing, and the thought of letting me mold you bit by bit into the perfect submissive for me excites you as much as it does me.

I’m also looking for a connection - I can’t have a healthy, fulfilling, and safe dynamic without getting to know the person first. This doesn’t necessarily have to be romantic, even a platonic bond does the trick. I’ve found developing that bond is an essential first piece for a dynamic, which needs to be built from the ground up. I’m willing to put in the work, so I want someone who is willing to work with me so we can get to our perfect dynamic that much quicker.

I’m open to both online and in-person dynamics. Ideally, any long-term dynamic would move to in-person, but there’s quite a distance between now and then. If you’re in the Midwest, I travel very frequently for work and leisure, so visits would be quite easy to make happen. Other instances can be evaluated on a case-by-case basis.

If you made it through this whole thing and still feel like you’re the person I’m talking to, then shoot me a message ASAP so we can get on with getting to know each other. If you reached out in the past, please reach out again. And if this post is still up, I’m definitely still looking. I can’t wait to talk to you.