Hi there!

Fair warning, this might be a bit long, but you're worth the read.

TL;DR: I'm a 34-year-old, financially stable, career-oriented Dom located in Germany, but I travel frequently. I'm searching for a partner who is looking for a relationship that’s grounded in mutual respect, trust, and of course, a dynamic that explores the beauty of D/s. Let's build something unique together!

Who Am I?

Physically: I'm 34. 177cm. Bigger, bear-type (muscular). Style-wise, I dress in the Old-money style.

Personality: Picture a blend of a natural leader and a supportive partner with a nerd at heart. I’m dominant by nature, but my dominance stems from a deep desire to take the best care of my partner. I want to push you to be the best version of yourself while providing a safe and nurturing environment. I value communication, kindness, and mutual respect in all my relationships. Despite my dominant tendencies, I'm looking for someone to share laughs, hobbies, and life with—a true partner. I want to understand exactly who you are.

Interests: I'm a bit of a mix. I love traveling, indulging in Michelin-star restaurants, and playing golf or squash. But I'm also a nerd at heart—I’m a regular in a DnD group, enjoy board games, and once played Magic: The Gathering at a semi-professional level. If you can match my energy in these areas, we’ll get along just fine.

Daily Life: I’m career-focused and financially independent, with my own place and no roommates. D/s isn't just something I keep in the bedroom—it's an essential part of who I am and how I connect with a partner. That being said, I also want someone who values balance and can share both power and vulnerability in our relationship.

Who and What I'm Looking For

I appreciate a partner who takes care of their appearance, whether it's hair, lashes, nails, or otherwise. Of course, that's also something I'm happy to support you with as well as in finding the style that is best for you. I’m seeking a partner who values communication, is emotionally available, and understands that submission and having agency in life aren’t mutually exclusive. I’m open to every s-type identity—sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.—and am most drawn to those who are eager to explore and grow together. I'd like someone who would be open to the idea of TPE, although that is optional.

The Kinky Stuff

Experience: I’ve been in the lifestyle for quite a bit, and topics that are interesting to me include TPE, impact play, and training. I enjoy giving and receiving praise, oral submission, anal, orgasm control, service-oriented tasks, and more. Communication is key for me, and I’m always open to discussing boundaries and desires to ensure we both get the most out of our connection.

Limits: My hard limits are scat and ABDL.

Location: Based in Germany, but I travel frequently. I’m open to connections within Europe or those who are willing to travel.

Final Thoughts

If you’re someone who wants a partner first and foremost—someone who can laugh with me, share in my hobbies, and live in a natural power exchange—I’d love to hear from you. I want to build a future that includes kids, travel, and all the experiences that life has to offer.

If this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to reach out. Please include a picture and a few words about your expectations in a partner, and I’ll happily return the favor.

Looking forward to connecting!