Hi! I guess to start with, I hope this wouldn't exclusively be a dom/sub thing, but I'd like it to also evolve into a relationship and a genuine connection. Monogamous, as I tend to be possessive within the dynamic and don't enjoy anything but outside of it.

That brings me right to it: I'm possessive and demanding, I enjoy telling my sub what to do (likely my biggest thing), am into light degradation (entirely optional and willing to work within your limit), denial, control and things of that nature. I think control is a big one for me, the more you're able to give to me, the better. I'm generally responsible and more than willing to work within your limits and go places you feel you enjoy the most with it.

Before this gets too long, my 'requirements' I guess: Your experience does not matter, and we can take things at your pace. I've been with partners before who've had to figure out what they do and don't enjoy, and I've usually had positive feedback about my approach. My priority is your comfort, and to that end I excel at aftercare, reassurances and affection, with plenty of affection obviously waiting for you in case this were to develop into a relationship too. It's important to note that my priority being your comfort does not mean I'm not demanding, just that, if you tell me something is your limit, I will take that to be your limit and not cross - so please be up-front, genuine and honest and don't expect me to go any further.

Whether you're awkward, shy, clingy or whatever else, I'm quite good at working with all that so you don't need to worry about it at all. In fact, all of those can add to the dynamic.

Within the dynamic, I can withhold affection or, if that is more your thing, be affectionate while still being demanding and commanding - again, that part is up to you and I will work within your comfort. I'm very adaptable. However, I both require to receive affection especially after engaging within the dynamic and I feel the need to be affectionate as well. If you'd enjoy someone who's never or rarely affectionate in general, that's not going to be me.

Random physical stuff that may matter to some: Blond, blue eyes, 1,72m, great (but strawy) hair.

If that sounds at all like the type of person you might want to give things a try with, don't hesitate to message me!