Tldr: (25M, straight) (25F, straight) seeking a V style enm relationship with a submissive/ brat.

Note: we just got a new place and are finally starting to build a playroom. :)

Hey all. My partner (25F, straight) and myself (25M, Straight) have been together for almost two years. Recently through some experimentation we discovered that she likes to know/watch/ hear me interacting with someone else. Because of this we have started exploring the possibility of some sort of "V" dynamic if we find someone that fits long term. My partner would like to be close/ best friends with this person and I would be romantic partners with both.

About me: I am 25, originally from the south and was exposed to D/s at too young of an age; however, that has shaped me into the Dominant I am today. As far as that goes I typically adjust to my partners needs and always adjust to their boundaries. I am into board games, EDH, and video games (sandboxes, map games). My career requires that I often be in a Suit or some sort of formal clothing. I will discuss that more in private.

My partner has infinite patience. We met on Facebook dating over two years ago. It took a minute for us to kick things off, but we have built a strong relationship. She is into books, Greek mythology, smut, and the occasional table top game with friends. Her career also requires privacy and could ne discussed in messages.

Our careers afford us an above average lifestyle for our age and region. My family knows we are seeking a poly relationship, and we are still somewhat closeted with her family. We are both about 30-40 lbs overweight but we are working on it.

What we are looking for: ideally a friend first. We have to really get to know you and all the vibes have to check. We move at the slowest pace of all parties and with an abundance of caution. Being nerdy and or capable of deep conversation is really important. Ideally we'd all be completely open and honest with eachother. All I've ever known is D/s so someone who is familiar or willing to explore that lifestyle is needed. Brats are the best, but I've interacted with all variants of subs over the years and welcome all. If everything goes well we would hope that the friendship would develop into a long term relationship. Midwest is preferred, but if the vibes are there, we would have the resources to assist bringing everyone closer together.

Please feel free to message me in private or ask questions here. I am completely open book. :)

Admins- I'm new to all this, if I messed up somewhere, please let me know.