Perhaps it's silly to come to a subreddit like this looking for love. But as the title says, I'm a hopeless romantic, so I'll keep trying to find my forever domme. Since I'm looking for a genuine, long term relationship, I'll start with describing my vanilla side a bit.

• I'm turning 35 next week and kinda maybe sorta struggling with an existential crisis about that. But when I'm not obsessing over my own mortality, I'm mostly getting super excited for autumn and spooky season. It's my favorite time of year. So if you're looking for a horror movie buddy or you wanna do matching costumes for Halloween, I'll happily volunteer.

• Although I'm mostly an introverted homebody, I do enjoy going out and touching grass, but my social battery drains pretty quickly. I like to stay active and explore the outdoors. When I'm not doing that, mostly I'll play video games. Super excited for the new Zelda game next month!

• I'm open to long distance and possibly relocating someday, but I'm currently in school and probably tied down in Pennsylvania for a few more years until I finish. I should also mention that I'm firmly childfree, so if you have or want kids, we won't be compatible unfortunately.

Now on to the kinky stuff!

• I'll admit that I'm actually pretty inexperienced with femdom relationships. But I've done enough self reflection to know what I want. I've always been naturally submissive and I've never enjoyed taking the lead. So I'm hoping to find a loving female led relationship. But I still want to be seen and respected, even if we both know that you have the final say. Good communication is everything.

• As far as specific kinks go, I like gentle femdom, teasing, denial, chastity, cuckolding, body worship, facesitting, feet, etc. I especially love petplay and collaring. It would make me so happy to be a good little puppy for a loving but stern domme. Limits include humiliation, blood, scat, biting, breaking skin. I'm more into a gentle and affectionate kind of dynamic.

• My sex drive is on the low end and I suffer from ED. So I'm very content to put you and your pleasure first. I think I just enjoy giving more than receiving.

Anyways, I think I've rambled on long enough now. If you're interested, feel free to send a message my way. Take care!