Hello 👋 I’m a male living in Palm Beach county interested in exploring a relationship with a dominant female.

I’ve been interested in BDSM since I can remember. In years passed I have always fantasized about playing a dominant role in the bedroom. However, my previous long term relationships have all been vanilla, and my previous partners were not interested in exploring my various kinks with me. I definitely should have been more upfront about my desires at the start of those relationships, but I was apprehensive about how they may react. You live and you learn.

Recently, I have been fantasizing about taking on a more submissive role in the bedroom. It is a side of me that I would love to have the opportunity to pursue in order to determine if it’s truly a lifestyle I want to live, or if I actually even enjoy it.

Some kinks I’ve recently been interested in are: -Femdom -Chastity -Pegging -Bondage -Spanking -Estim -prostate milking -(maybe) forced feminization

Hard no’s: scat/pee/blood/urethral sounding/public humiliation

My vanilla life and about me: I’m a 5’11. 175lbs(and losing. 165 is my goal weight) I’m college educated. Overall I would consider myself handsome, I will be willing to send pics for verification.

Never married, no kids. I work long hours during the week but have weekends and holidays off 😃 I live by myself. Usually in the evenings after work I go to the gym, or relax and watch something on tv. I occasionally play video games but less and less as I get older. I still enjoy them when I have the time. I’m definitely a nerd at heart.

On the weekends I enjoy spending time with family, cooking something, paddle boarding(when it’s not too hot) or just generally doing nothing 🤣

I’m recently sober from alcohol.(no dui or criminal record) It’s been over 5 months since my last drink, and my life has honestly never been better and keeps getting better. I have a confidence in myself that I never knew existed. I realized that if I want something in life that I have to go for it!

What I’m looking for: I know this is going to be a shot in the dark, but preferably someone within a 20 mile radius would be great. Willing to try online/cyber play in the right circumstances. Looking for someone kind hearted in their vanilla life but willing to punish me in the bedroom 😈 Also absolutely no findom please.

Thank you for taking the time to read and I hope you have a great day 😁