Hi! I'm a 35 year old white male who seeks a relationship involving kink of the gentler persuasion. I'm talking about words of positive affirmations, nurturing support, and hearts full of good intent. I want to build my partner up, and for her to build me up too.

I'm a musician. I enjoy exercising by way of yoga/bike riding, I'm a decent cook, don't have any kids, am respectful, fun, give a fantastic massage, am 6 feet tall with a lean body type. I think I'm kinda cute. Maybe like a 7/10 on the hotness scale but a 9/10 on the personality scale. I dunno, I think I'm good company. You can be the judge. I'm 420 friendly and not much of a drinker these days anymore. I naturally lean more submissive in the bedroom, but am more than happy to switch it up and put on my gentle/pleasure dom hat when the mood is called for. After all, it takes two to tango.

My ideal partner is someone kind, somewhat extroverted, who has a sense of humor and values making the best of things. A good listener who I can grow to trust both in and out of the bedroom. I often find myself attracted to creative/artist types, women who practice yoga, and queer women. But really I'm open to anybody with a kind soul who wants to grow together. Beauty comes from within.

Interests of mine in the kink world include healthy amounts of praise, controlling orgasms, face sitting, providing oral, light anal play, and more. I'm open to trying a lot with the right person. I am a natural people-pleaser and love nothing more than to satisfy my partner by any means necessary (within my boundaries!)

I'm really not into pain, degradation, chastity, feminization, being a cuckold, bathroom stuff, cages, or anything that makes me feel devalued as a person. I prefer an egalitarian approach to a relationship, where we both have equal voices and see each other as true partners in and out of the kinky bedroom.

Send me a message with a little bit about you if you're interested and we'll take it from there! Please don't send me any one word messages. We can all do better than that!