Good evening, or whenever this message finds you.    I am a long-time lurker and a first-time poster. I must say, I appreciate the wonderful variety of Dominants present here, as your unique nuances provide me with inspiration regarding my own preferences. I have had the pleasure of meeting many different individuals. I apologize in advance for my difficulty in discussing myself, but I am willing to give it a go.   Who am I?    I am a passionate curvy woman with speckled porcelain skin, vibrant green eyes, and a smile that can shift from sweet and innocent to deviant in the blink of an eye. I have been described in many ways, such as "big titty goth chick," "succubus," and "siren." While there may be some truth to those descriptions, I consider the core of my being to be that of a submissive and a natural-born kinkster. I believe that the world of BDSM is a way of life—an opportunity to immerse oneself in the darker aspects of sexuality. While trust and communication serve as the foundation of any good relationship, they are especially paramount in this realm, particularly concerning power dynamics. I believe that a power dynamic is so much more fore filling when it is rooted in trust and respect, allowing everything else to unfold naturally. With that in mind, I would like to get to know you as a person in addition to discovering who you are as a Dominant. To me, the next step is pushing boundaries and exploring everything this lifestyle has to offer together.    I have far too many kinks to count, and I would be happy to discuss them to see where our interests align. I thoroughly enjoy the various kinky quizzes available online these days. I firmly believe in trying everything at least twice, outside of already established hard limits. For me, the possibilities are endless; it is all about imagination. Some have referred to me as an "alpha sub," while with others, I bring out the switch in them because of my high empathy and emotional intelligence. However, I am looking for the person who allows for me to look to them for that guidance. I possess a very dirty mind and a diverse array of interests, both SFW and NSFW. My life has been quite interesting thus far, and I hope to find someone with a similar outlook on life.    Some Interests:  Music, books, history, science, cars, bikes, travel, dogs, occult, spirituality.    Some Kinks:  D/s, Dd/lg, predator-prey, role play, auralism, accents, size differences, control, mental stimulation, edging, bondage, romance, age gaps.    Some Hard Limits:  Scat, watersports, bestiality   What am I looking for?    I seek someone who identifies as masculine, wise, and naturally Dominant to converse with. If there is a spark and the conversation flows easily, the rest will be just details for us to navigate together. I value respect for time—both mine and yours—and I require absolute honesty, appreciating those who are upfront. I would describe myself as shy yet outgoing, and I tend to match the energy of the person I am speaking with.    To begin, I would love for you to share how you were introduced to the world of kink and when you realized that Dominance was your path. I have been told that I am a decent conversationalist; however, I would appreciate someone who is willing to lead the conversation as they would lead in our dynamic, as this allows me to be my most open self.    I look forward to hearing from you.