Hello,

I’m just your average 35 year old female looking for someone to share both life and the bedroom with. I’m not interested in anything that involves just kink, I don’t want to start conversation with someone and just dive straight in. I want to connect with someone person to person as that side of me does not just flip on for anyone. If you’re looking for strictly online or strictly kink, I’m not the one.

Anywho, about me. I’m a musician, 3d printer enthusiast and keyboard nerd. I love coffee, travel, and digging through crates for weird vinyl records. I absolutely love movies and regularly host movie night with my projector. I’m currently on a fitness journey and focusing on strength. I’m you’re not interested in someone who is overweight at this current time then please move it along. I have a dog, she’s absolutely stellar. I also enjoy some sports - football, women’s basketball, and women’s rugby. I’m also currently back in school and working towards my degree while working full time. I do not want kids now or ever. I’d make a rad aunt though.

What/who I’m looking for… Well, for starters I’m looking for someone between 30-40. You should share some of the interests above, have some goals and motivation in life. Location is open as I’m not tied to where I am now. I want something that starts with the focus on getting to know each other as people versus being wholly focused on kink and what that brings to the table.

When it comes to the relationship, as mentioned I am looking for something female lead aka lead by me. I am not looking to be someone’s boss, control or authority figure. I do not want kink to bleed into every single aspect of everyday. I do know that kink and what I desire is important, however, so here I am.

The way I see myself is that I’m a great motivator and an even better cheerleader. I want someone who wants to grow together and I have no issue being the driving force.

As for kink, just to avoid any wasted time I am not interested in anything involving bodily waste, diapers, blood/pain/gore, or being called Mommy ever.

Top Interests: bondage, pegging, chastity, light pain play.

There’s a lot more I could unpack here but I feel like there’s already a lot of words.

If you’d like to chat further please send me a message. I won’t respond to anyone who does not include their age and some basic conversational stuff.