Are you being crushed by life’s demands and worries?

Do you yearn for something simpler and more stable?

A relationship in which the man takes the lead, takes care of your needs and considers your wants?

A power exchange which takes itself seriously as a long-term committed relationship come what may, in good days and in bad days?

Your Dom/Master being your husband, your owner, your lover and your best friend?

Then maybe you’re the woman I’m looking for.

As for myself, I’ve been around the BDSM/kink block for a good two decades, I’ve pretty much done everything I ever wanted to do, perhaps more than I should have done and having had some very long power exchange relationships, I know for a fact that this is my natural relationship type.

Having thus matured in and out of the lifestyle and having experienced that life is for living, for playing, for loving and for growing with that special someone, I am ready to commit to someone I have good chemistry with.

Speaking of chemistry, ultimately I am looking for a triple bond. Think carbon. A strong bond, based on good compatibility in kink, love and in vanilla. I have found that this makes a relationship that nothing else even remotely can come close to. I know the difference, I have lived it and there’s just no compare.

Everything is based on honesty and trust of course. In BDSM, you have nothing without those two.

Aside from the kink, I also have an interesting history, both private as well as in my career. Happy to tell you more in person.

I have no great material aspirations. I am a homeowner, soon enough I’ll pay off the mortgage, sometimes I buy a car or motorbike as I fancy it and I usually lag half a generation behind PC or console gaming.

I like to travel and I have a social circle of kinksters I engage with every so often at munches or fetish parties, clubs, markets etc. Something I’d prefer to not give up totally.

That’s me in a nutshell basically.

If the above appeals, get in touch. If not, maybe tell me why.