I tweak or even completely rewrite my post each time I post, so if you are on the fence, feel free to look over my old posts to see if we might be a match! If we spoke before but fell out for some reason, send me a message, I’m good at forgiving and I hope you are willing to give a second chance!

Let's start this fresh. Like many of you, I’m looking for someone special, a submissive who just hits. I know there are many other important requirements, but it just feels so good when I am excited for someone special. I believe soulmates are not discovered, but formed through commitment.

With the end goal stated, Let us now put it to the side. I find I often am too focused on the destination and I forget to find joy in the journey. We never know where our roads will take us,  so let's start where we should. Maybe we will end up in a deep bdsm relationship, but for now, I should ask: Can we make good friends?

About me: I am a person of paradoxes, and honestly, I like that about myself. I think the world is too complex, too raw, too real to be easily sumarized in a few sentences. I want to be complicated and I am okay with some of my feelings and desires not perfectly matching with eachother.  I want my partner to not feel she has solved life because life isn’t a problem to solve but a ride to experience! For me, all the joy, pain, laughter, and sorrow combine to make life special. Without the opposition in all things, I don’t think the highs would mean anything. 

On my average weekend, I love nothing more than a lazy Sunday. Let's curl up together and watch a fun movie, or play some classic games (board or video games). Maybe I will work on the tabletop RPG (similiar to D&D) while you sit in my lap playing on your phone. Nevertheless, I also need to push myself to experience more than just the inside of my own home. On the occasional weekend, I want to go see the holy mountain tops and see the angels flying in mid heaven  or delve into the depth of humanity, by experiencing festivals, spectacles, or shows. I want someone who can match my energy. Whether its enjoying a relaxing day or getting pumped for a big event! Your interests don’t have to match mine, but I want us to give each other energy to learn about ourselves and each other.

I am fairly fit and exercise daily. I don’t have abs or a 6% body fat, but I am healthy. To help you understand what I look like, here are a couple of photos of me (I don’t have a beard anymore). Physical attraction is important to me, and I’d feel like a hypocrite if I didn’t show myself upfront. If you include a photo, you will be prioritized. But let's be real, I’m a male looking for a woman on the internet. There is no queue.

On BDSM: I don’t care if you’re a brat, sub, little, or some other term. I want to explore a relationship with you because of how we connect. Kink is second, necessary, but second. Ideally, you would be interested TPE.  I don’t mean that I want to micro-manage you after all a girl who has to be compelled in all things is a slothful and not wise servant. Instead, I want to have the right to overrule everything that doesn’t fall in your limits.  It takes time to build this level of trust, so please don’t think that is where I expect to start. I will use my authority try to make you the best person you can be. While ruining a submissive can be fun in roleplay, I want my submissive to feel safe with me and excited to serve and obey because she trusts me. Occasionally, I will enjoy her for my own sake, but the focus should be on expanding my submissive's world. 

My dominance style is a little different with each submissive I’ve had. Generally, it falls more into the caring, but strict dom. I Can have a bit of a mean streak in me. I’m kind of like an inverse sour candy. I start sweet, and if I trust you, you can see some of me raw. I want someone who can see these parts and love me in my best and worst lights. Whether I’m your daddy, sir, or master will be decided by how the relationship naturally forms. I want to see where we go. My only end goal is exploring our lives together. Ideally, I want her to be a housewife, but this isn’t necessary. I am happy with many types of relationships, but I hold a special place for the traditional lifestyle. I've always wanted to come home to a clean house where my partner is free from intense work and is able to pursue her hobbies and passions (but also keeping the house tidy, and rearing the children). While I would love to explore it with the right woman, I understand that real life can take us out of the ideal. Please don’t feel we need to have a trad life if it isn’t for you. What is most important is the intimacy we share as partners not the economic/domestic roles we choose.

I also enjoy other kinks including: CNC, spankings, punishments, humiliation and degradation, and many others but I’d prefer to get into detail in private.

My limits are scat, gore, and permanent harm.

I don't mind if we have an age gap. What matters is your personality and your mental maturity.

Let's not spend our lives alone. I am hoping that girl who makes my heart flutter is just a message away. I hope to see your orange message in my mailbox soon!

P.S. If you caught the religious texts I weaved into this, please reach out with the organization’s name! I consider myself agnostic now, but I want to at least compliment you for recognizing the faith I grew up in.