So the title pretty much says it all but to add some context, as of last week I've officially moved from Texas up to the New England area, specifically around Boston. It's been a long few weeks organizing the move but I'm finally starting to have my place feel a little nicer and more organized. As I adapt to my new routine more, I've found myself missing the middle section of Maslow's pyramid (yes I'm a nerd, Daddy's can be nerdy too!). To be more direct, I need to make some new friends (kinda successful so far), and I'd like to hopefully find a special someone up here too. While I think the basis for a real relationship is more than just kink, I'm posting here because it is an aspect I enjoy and I'd hope that my future partner enjoys it too, specifically DDlg. I feel like I have a lot of pent up paternal energy that I want to give to someone. Lots of "good girl", "you're so special", "just like that babygirl", along with forehead kisses and cuddles are things to be expected. I want to get to know both your big and little side. Maybe you're a sanrio girlie who wants to tell me about her stuffies, or a coquettesque girl who love Lana and wants to listen to lay down together while we listen to Born to Die, or maybe you just enjoy dressing cute and don't really want any of the lg stuff outside of the aesthetic. Either way, I want to learn about you :).
Onto myself, I'd like to think I'm a laid back kind of guy, but I know some people need to hear stats first. Nothing wrong with having preferences, but I'd hope that you'd read the entire post, or better yet, go to my profile and listen to some of my voice notes to get an idea of my personality so that you can decide from there. Here are the stats: I'm Hispanic, 5'8" (174 cm for the international littles), just north of a stocky 200 lbs (90 kg, I like to lift but I also like the dessert menu here and there), salt n pepper hair, a lil bit of facial hair. Hopefully that's enough to go on but I'm happy to exchange pics if you reach out.
As for getting to know each other, I don't mind texting but calls over a certain purple platform are what I prefer when I get to know someone online. If you listened to one of my aforementioned voice notes, you might have seen that I heavily prefer talking through voice chat because it gives you a better understanding of who you're talking to. After a few calls, and when you feel comfortable, a nice brunch or dinner date would be our preferable first meet up. No expectations or anything like that, just to make sure we vibe in real life, then from there I guess the sky's the limit.
If you've made it this far, hopefully you're interested in at least trying to chat for a bit. Even if you're not looking for a romantic connection I'd love to make new friends in the area who are in the lifestyle :). If you are not from the New England area but you'd still like to connect, I was very fortunate to get a job that allows for alot of remote work. Maybe you're in another state, Canada, Mexico, Europe, Asia, etc., if we have real chemistry, we can make it work so we can meet. Of course that requires alot of work and understanding on both of our parts.
I have few preferences for those who are interested in a romantic connection. Obviously 18 , I don't mind if you are a bit younger than me, as it's common in these this type of relationships, but the farther away from my age, the more consideration I'd have to give to our different stages in life for something serious, unless you're just looking for a friend or short-term thing. Not saying it's not possible to connect to someone 10 years away from my age, just that I'm primarily looking for someone who is serious about a relationship and maybe you might not be in a stage of life where you're looking for something serious. I'd also prefer that you at least be a little bit active. I have some belly fat (cleaning up the diet so I can tone out), so I don't mind if you have some too. But I like going to lift, taking some yoga classes here and there, and maaaaybe doing a few HIIT classes (brutal though and just kill my legs), so I hope that you enjoy doing something physical to stay in shape. If you are a little who has an ED, please let me know so that we can work together to care for you health, that'll always be priority number one.
Sorry for making the post so long, but hopefully you've been enticed to reach out :).
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