Hiiiii! I am a 41 year old poly sub living in Brooklyn. Life is good. Alas, something is missing in it - a domme girlfriend to serve and laugh with.

I see my life as an adventure mixed with hard work. I have skied through the alps, surfed the waves in Costa Rica, and rode in a hot air balloon in Myanmar. I love wandering the world in search of interesting things to eat and drink. This extends to my day to day, where I'm always down to try interesting food throughout the city and pick up a new activity. Let's go find a fun thing to do together.

In my spare time, I love to rock climb, play chess, and play guitar (poorly). Cooking is a passion with a bias towards brash Mexican, Asian, and Cajun dishes.

I am relatively liberal politically and donate to left leaning causes like Planned Parenthood. I look forward to voting for our first female president in November (God I hope I'm right on that one).

I am polyamorous and currently have two partners. I am not looking for another nesting partner, but I am hopeful for something real.

I am hopeful that I can ultimately build a relationship with you that is equitable at its core. One where we both deeply respect each other, listen to each other, and can talk about everything and anything. At the same time, I ultimately want to build a relationship that is also deeply imbalanced in your favor. One that is punctuated with service in and out of the bedroom, as that is my love language.

I am not looking for a relationship that involves micromanagement or for you to make every decision. Frankly, I am an incredibly capable person. And, well, that sounds unfair from a mental burden perspective. What I want is to ultimately empower you, to make the decisions you want. But one thing at a time. Let's laugh, have fun, and do things that we remember with a smile 5 years later.

In terms of physical kinks, I am not looking for a magical kink dispenser and there are no must have scared cows. I have a lot of what I would call pretty generic sub interests - pegging, tease and denial/orgasm control, body worship, spanking, and the like.