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First of all, am a paradox. And I like to believe most of us who indulge in this dynamic are. The sub am seeking would also be someone who's in touch with this side to herself.
I enjoy a woman who is a feminist and yet understands that's feminism is a choice and chooses to surrender to me. A girl who believes that it's not natural for a woman to be submissive even if they would be inclined to, but it's a choice that they yield when they find their deserving Dominant.
If you are someone who would enjoy making your I as an i, I would enjoy you. These little things are important to me. It shows a thought behind it, a devotion, an yearning to be controlled, to be used. A need to please, to earn a "good girl".
If you are someone who would frequently use her SW, I would enjoy your even more. General perception aside, it's clear to me that I can push a woman more if am confident that she will use her SW if I breach her boundary. If am not confident that she will exercise that option, I might not be confident enough to push her as the fact is: initially only the sub would know her boundaries.
Unfortunately am only seeking online. Have been in this dynamic for a long time in real life but am gradually coming back though only in an online capacity.
If you think that this post seems all over the place, you might be right. I won't be the Dom for you. But if you can relate to what am trying to communicate in this post, feel free to reach out.
P.S: Limits will be respected.
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