You're tired of trying to be a big and/or smart girl. It's exhausting always having to think for yourself, make your own decisions, figure out what's right and wrong and what you should be doing in any given situation. It would be so much easier to have someone to do that for you. To think for you, to decide for you, someone you can look to to tell you what's right for you and what's not. Someone that can tell you how to act, how to be. Someone that knows you and knows best, so that you don't have to keep trying to.

A bit about me:

I'm a 38 year old soft dom from Portland, Oregon. I'm attracted to TPE, DDLG, and extreme, permanent power dynamics. Whether it's father/daughter or Master/slave (or a combination of the two), I'm looking to ingrain this dynamic into your reality. You're not just playing along with something fun or spciy, this is your deepest truth.

My style of ownership focuses more on psychological and emotional domination and control than things like rough sex, etc. If you're just looking for someone to tie you up and choke you, I'm not your guy. If you want your identity carefully molded until it's no longer in your own hands, we should talk.

Other kinks I have include things like hypnosis, bimbofication / IQ reduction, ageplay, light raceplay, loving degradation, and a lot more along these same lines.

Outside of kink I'm a pretty big nerd and enjoy PC and retro gaming, fantasy novels, TCGs, and recently I've been getting really into synthesizers and dream of setting up a little recording studio.

I'd love to hear from anyone local. I'm also open to online, but if we hit it off I'd expect a genuine LTR with the aim of eventually meeting up in person. If this isn't something that you ever want, let's not waste each other's time. I'm also not terribly interested in plus-sized girls right now. I'd prefer that you are at least height/weight proportionate if not petite.

Please be willing to verify early on. A lot of the responses I receive are from catfishing accounts or people that aren't who they say.

I look forward to hearing from you soon.