Hey everyone,

I am looking for a sub in or around Berlin.

On the broader aspects of BDSM, I like D/s, humiliation (but also praising), inflicting pain, and I am also curious about exploring the realms of CNC.

Here is a more detailed list of acts I like:

Deep throating / face fucking: Oral sex is a great act of pleasuring and sexual service. And deep throating just shows how much you are willing to give for my pleasure. I like the D/s aspect and would like to train you on this skill and see you improving over time. Hearing you gagging (and thus seeing you suffering) will stimulate my sadistic side. Face fucking adds an objectifying and humiliating component to regular oral and deep throating, your mouth will just become another hole to fuck.

Anal: I am quiet anal focused. Probably, it is the taboo aspect that started my interest about it. But also from a D/s and orgasm control aspect it is really tempting: This hole should be supposed for my pleasure, and not yours - and by giving me your ass, you confirm that my pleasure is above yours. (I am well aware that women can have pleasure in anal sex and even have orgasms, it is more the mental aspect of showing, that your pleasure is secondary.) Also knowing that all your holes are mine is a nice mental D/s aspect.

Pain: I have a sadistic side. Just seeing your pain gives me pleasure. Either I am giving you pleasure when you are a masochist or see how much you are willing to endure for me, if you are just doing it for submission :D If you are bratty, punishing you for misbehavior is also great. Tools could be paddles, whips, my bare hands or clamps; but I am always open for new input. :)

Humiliation: Humiliation has both a D/s and SM component for me. If you are willing to be humiliated you are taking your place below me, but I also see it as a non-physical act of sadomasochism. Humiliation could be name calling, making you say degrading things about yourself or letting you do things that you are embarrassed of. Spitting in your mouth and face and making you thank for it also drives me crazy. I also fantasize about water sports and ass to mouth - mainly for the humiliation aspect. But there should always be room for praise as well. Telling you what a good girl you are and seeing you happy about that is also an important counterpart to humiliation.

Orgasm control: It is the D/s aspect of orgasm control that I like. Giving up your own agency about having orgasms and only come when you are allowed to do so is pure submission. In its extreme form I like the idea of anal only and chastity.

Bondage: Bondage on its own is not really pleasuring me sexually. But a functional restriction of movement can be nice for sessions. However, I like it from a aesthetic and creative point of view and would like to visit some workshops together.

CNC: I would also like to explore CNC. Just taking what I want and fighting resistance makes a good contrast to purely submission based sessions.

Limits: Permanent and long lasting injuries, blood play, needles, knife play, cutting, electro play, chemsex, extreme breath play, humiliation regarding your appearance / body shaming, race play, waterboarding and scat (excluding some light dirty atm), playing without safewords.

Kink and BDSM are not a one-way-street and you are not a kink dispenser. So I am curious what aspects of BDSM you like, and want to create sessions and a dynamic together. Two perverted minds are more creative than one, after all.

Ideally, we should start slow into a dynamic and progressively discover our more extreme kinks. Trust, mutual respect and a good communication are necessary for a good dynamic that is fun for everyone. To reach this state, we should aim for a long term play-relationship - but I am also open for a love relationship if it develops.

Aftercare and on-going communication are a must for me.

You are not just a sub, you are a human - so I also want to get to know your non-kinky self. Besides playing we could also spend time cuddling, watching Netflix or doing some outdoor activities.

In my free time I am visiting climbing gyms, playing board games, spending time with friends and playing video games.

I am a rather short guy (1.68m), have an athletic body, medium short hair, green/grey eyes, no beard and a tattoo. I am usually in a good mood and always open joking around with people. Languages: German and English.

Hope to hear from you soon :)