About me

I’m a 34 year old male from Australia. Physically, I’m 6’3 tall, bearded, with a large build and a little more to love.

I’d like to think I’m an intelligent and competent man. I work a professional job and am good at what I do. I’m also passionate about it. I have a graduate degree, sometimes teach at university, and am flirting with the idea of getting a doctorate.

I’ve been told I have a masculine “calming” aura to me. A sense that I handle pressure well, that I’m good at solving problems, that I always know how to reassure a person when they’re stressed out and help them find a solution to navigate their situation. This very much feeds into my style as a dom (more on that below!) and I look for partners who value and need this energy in their lives.

I’m curious and love learning and exploring. Most of the time, you’ll find me curled up on the sofa with a book or watching a new show, or playing card games with friends, or just spending time with people I care about. The who is usually more important than what we’re doing.

Kink and me

I’ve been a Dom in all of my relationships. It has always been obvious to me that that’s what I liked, and what my partners needed from me.

What does that look like? Its complicated. Every dynamic with every partner is different. Broadly, I’d describe myself as a Daddy Dom in that I take a lot of pleasure in being the more experienced, wiser, more established partner and using those qualities to guide and take care of my sub. Helping you be your best self and live your best life and be fulfilled is very important to me.

I am also selfish. And controlling. I feel a need to be deeply involved in and in charge of your life. When I’m invested in someone, I feel an almost all consuming hunger for them. There’s no part of them I shouldn’t have my hands on, or in. I need my baby to give herself to me so that I can take everything I need from her.

Depending on my partner I enjoy things like wardrobe control, orgasm control, micromanagement, sadism, discipline, humiliation, cnc, and general training towards deference and good behaviour. I am strictly interested in 24/7 dynamics. I understand the importance of risk aware consent and absolutely respect my partner’s limits and needs for aftercare.

In general, feeling a powerful attachment to each other is important to me. I enjoy my subs becoming dependent.

What’s this about a kinky family?

This is a fairly fluid idea. Essentially, I’m looking to meet and connect with 2-4 women on here to start our own little group dynamic.

That might look like, for example: * Little sisters, both of whom are my little girls, but who also play and take care of each other when Daddy is away or busy with work. * A big sister and little sisters, with the big sister being in charge when Daddy isn’t around (ie a switch). * Possibly, a Mommy to domme our little girls together with me (the dynamic between us would need to be negotiated).

I’m also open to other arrangements.

Why a kinky family instead of a traditional monogamous arrangement? I feel this lends itself better to a dynamic that will be mostly online (though I am very open to meeting as we become close), often across problematic time zones. I also am very drawn to the idea of playing with my little girls separately and together at different times, and the different kinds of experiences and dynamics that could generate.

It is very important to me that all of us like each other. That is why, for the first month at least, I will only be talking to girls who message me one on one to see if we get along and enjoy spending time together. Other people would only be introduced once there’s a genuine bond established between me and you, and only when everyone feels ready.

I think I’ve rambled enough now - this is so long nobody will ever read it! But if you did, and you liked it, send me a chat request with the word “flower” in it. Tell me what you liked about this post, and why you think it might be the right thing for you. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!