Hi y'all! I'm Natalie, a 33 y/o trans woman with some very submissive tendencies and looking for a dom/me that's relatively local to the Philly area! Can be online to start but being able to move to in person is a MUST if we click, not looking for a kinky pen pal here. Ideally looking for something with the potential to move beyond a kink-based dynamic and into more of a longterm relationship

Kink-wise I'm into: degradation, humiliation, general masochism, bondage, orgasm control, anal play (receiving), control, training, hypno, punishment

I'm open to, but have not tried: petplay, caging, impact

Hard limits: scat, watersports, blood, permanent damage

Generally speaking what I hope for out of BDSM dynamic is a sense of giving up control and ownership over my own actions to someone else, someone I can fully trust myself in the hands of while being just a little bit afraid of the power they wield over me. In my day-to-day life I am generally pretty independent and value having a lot of control over my environment and my life, so in the bedroom and behind the scenes is where I really crave having the ability to give all that up and let someone make me feel like a helpless little slut I am :)

Outside of kink I'm a huge nerd, spent my entire life online and engrossed in hobbies like gaming (videogames, board games, TTRPGs, whatever), anime, history, and anything in the fantasy, sci-fi, or horror space. Also into fitness and fashion but those are more in the "things I like to do bc I like to look good" category lol. I'm also a staunch leftist, and while our politics don't necessarily need to line up 1:1 I do require that we at least share the same general values or we almost certainly won't get along well.

Below are a few recent pics to give you an idea of what I look like! If we start talking I'd also greatly appreciate pics from you as well to get an idea of your appearance

https://imgur.com/m9KZuib

https://imgur.com/SyodTyO

https://imgur.com/2QT1f3K

Hope to hear from some of you fine folks soon :)