Just turned 40 and don't know where my love life is headed. I'm a few years out of a failed relationship with the mother of my child, which has left me scarred and my heart shattered to pieces. Idk if I believe in love anymore... but I sure as hell still lust. There was a brief time after the break-up where I was so crushed I didn't think of women at all, but now that desire is coming back with a vengeance. I have had a few flings/short relationships since then, but with some other things going on in my personal/professional life as well right now I haven't had a chance to get out and find someone new lately.

And let me tell you, the depravity is growing inside me. I thought at 40 that my sex drive would have slowed down at least a little, but it's every bit as strong as when I was in my 20s. And this is not a desire to "make love" that I'm talking about here... I'm craving a fuck-toy; a submissive eager-to-please little collection of holes that gets off by letting me do whatever I want with her. Dom/sub, pet play, ddlg, anything that puts you at my whim. If you're curious about more of my specific kinks just ask. Tell me yours too (just bc I'm trying to get pleased myself doesn't mean I don't want to give you what you want too).

Me: Italian-American, lean/athletic build, conventionally handsome, enthusiastic communicator, has a mellow side that shows about 90% of the time and a wickedly intense side that comes out the other 10%

You: preferably on the petite side (short & thicc is very nice but plz no clinically obese ppl), kink-wise experienced is good, inexperienced but eager to learn is equally good, any race, most aesthetics are cool with me but at least be somewhat femme, age range 18-45

Obviously someone in the Gulf Coast region (anywhere from Houston to Destin) is preferred but I'm cool with an online dynamic too. If you've made it this far and you're interested, hmu and tell me why you decided to msg me