Hi! White man here, 5'8, hazel eyes and a bit chubby. I am mature emotionally and mentally stable, don't play games with others hearts and minds. Been around long enough, life is to be enjoyed, not destroyed. Like most, I've got a past but it was a learning experience that taught me a lot. Looking to grow and experience the best life has to offer with someone compatible. Eat primarily whole foods, go to the gym regularly, practice stoicism and meditation, homebody that occasionally goes out to interesting events. My love languages are quality time and physical touch. Love flying my drone, kayaking, going to the range, and sitting and enjoying tea while playing my Steam Deck games as it thunderstorms outside. Spiritual but not religious, moderate politically, monogamous.

At the top of the list I want love. Someone I can trust completely and tell my every secret to, be goofy with, and be my confidant as I will be yours. You should be sweet, kind, and a gentle soul. A witchy woman at heart. Gothy/Spooky style is gorgeous. Nerdy would be a big plus. Someone I can praise and protect, spoil with affection and attention and a teasing touch. Clingy and needy. Submissive but bratty, who talks back with intent to rile me up to punish you over my knee, all of which is just fun and games. I'm a soft Dom. But is also someone who can just sit and I can watch something new with or go out to festivals or events with. Personally, I don't mind what political side you lean to or if you have religious beliefs, just do not try to force them on me. Race does not matter to me.

A few of my favorite kinks are ass play((giving)spanking, butt plugs, remote controlled vibrators, enemas, IRL roleplaying(I have a lot of favorite taboo scenes/kinks I really enjoy), dirty talking, light BDSM, primal play, among many others.

There's a lot to get to know about each other. Let's start that journey together. Want to see if we click? Let's chat. Pics upon trade. But I'll eventually want to move towards voice chatting and eventually meeting in person.