Dear Mr. Future Dream Dom: *Please quit hiding and come find me. *Please read my post below as well as my past personals before you reach out. *Please treat me like a princess in public. *Please use me like I'm yours in private. *Please end my constant search for you. *Please blow my mind with how genuinely sweet & open you are. *Please accept that I'm a switch and I'm spicy. *Please don't be easily intimidated by an independent woman. *Please don't fetishize me because I'm Black; don't be that weirdo. *Please don't be easily offended when I speak my mind on racism, sexism, & mental health issues.

Quick summary: I'm a spicy (I don't say "brat") sub-leaning switch who loves CNC play, but I seek a progressive, sweet, & sensitive Dom outside of kink play. I want an actual relationship, so don't expect me to jump into anything.

Important points in no particular order:

1) Please be able to hold a conversation. I'm not doing that shit by myself. 2) Please don't message me with "Hi," "Hit me up," or "Tell me more about you." You can find exactly what I'm looking for in my other personals. Please actually tell me about you, using multiple sentences. 3) No love bombing will be accepted. We can move at a natural, normal pace. 4) Catfishing will get you reported. 5) Please be genuinely sweet and sensitive. 6) Please allow me to be the spicy sub that I am. If an independent woman who curses offends your sensibilities, keep it moving, playa. 7) If you're NOT single, don't message me 8) If you don't want a meaningful LTR, don't message me. 9) I'm not jumping into sexy play until we're both comfortable. My submission has to be earned. I'm looking for an actual partner. Sex comes way after. 10) If you're atheist, please don't message me. God matters to me. 11) If you're under the age of 30 or older than 43, don't message me. I prefer ages 32-42. 12) Please be able to provide daily, consistent communication. Otherwise, don't message me. 13) I'm very passionate about speaking against racism, sexism, & mental health stigmas. If any of that offends you, kindly fuck off.

"I pray I don't miss the love of my life today."