I guess if had to put a name on the type of dynamic I'm looking for maybe a longterm caring daddy/little girl dynamic with no age play or soft dom. I love pleasing, which makes me not a brat at all.
In my day to day life I'm the independent, diligent student that has it all together, but when there's time for a break I just crave nothing more than slipping into subspace, giving up control and pleasing. All the stress seems to dissapear, and all that matters is being a desperate little good girl. For me the enjoyment from bdsm during sessions comes 90% from what I feel like mentally, rather than what pleasure I feel physically. I also prefer mentioning beforehand that I don't have an easy time cumming, so if forced orgasms/orgasm control are a must for you I might not be the one.
Despite being a good girl at heart I am still really focused on my studies and currently not looking to meet up. That doesn't mean I don't want any connection outside of sessions. I still want my dom to feel like a best friend, someone always by my side, that cares for me beyond my body. Feeling safe and cared for is what allows me to fall in subspace and trust you with my body and mind in the first place. To be truthful I can be a bit clingy and needy once I care about you, ideally we communicate daily, but as long as I'm aware you'll be busy or need some time alone I'm understanding. After all we both have a life outside the dynamic, and as a student I'm not available all the time either.
As I enjoy pleasing the most, I'm open to most kinks. Some of my favourites are praise, humilation, free use, breeding, choking, bondage, letting you make decisions for me (sexual and non sexual). Don't own any toys currently but that could be changed Limits I can think of right now are scat, vomit, incest play, tpe, intense exhibitionism, real animals, illegal things, permanent scars.
Preferred age range is 21-30, but if you think you're the one you can still apply. Physically I am petite and fit. As I give up control to my dom I find it more attractive if he takes care of his body and lives healthy, I guess it's just an instinct telling me he'll be able to take good care of me as well. Doesn't mean you have to be a body builder, just a healthy weight. Be able to hold a conversation as well, as sad as it is that this needs to be mentioned. My mother tongue isn't english but as I really like literature and have weak visual imagination words and the way someone expresses themselves have a big impact on me.
After it feels safe I don't mind sending pictures and videos, voice calls I'm split on as I just despise my accent. The more you pressure me into that, the more it drives me away.
If you send me a message please include the name of the first main group of the periodic table, bonus points if you don't have to look it up. Connection comes first, so if you're just trying to jump into sexual things and get off, don't bother.
Looking forward to meeting you<3
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 4 months ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/BDSMpersona...