Hello! Thanks for taking the time to check this out!

I'm a somewhat experienced soft dom in online exchanges. I'm not one of these seasoned doms who's been doing it for a decade, but I do understand and employ the principles of safe play (RACK, etc.). I've a few short term friendships/dynamics over the past year, and been lurking and reading about BDSM much before that. I know subs are always looking for a super seasoned veteran but - you gotta learn somehow, right? Let me get right into the heart of what I'm looking for:

What I'm after:
I want to gamify your submission. I want to make custom games of chance for you to gamble your pleasure and punishments with. I can provide examples for you to look at from past partners.
I want to give you tasks and rules to live with for short terms (1-10 days), with rewards and punishments based on your performance.
I want to learn your kinks and tailor the experience around your interests.
I want to employ safe and sensible limits and safety measures.
I want to receive photographic or audio evidence of completed tasks - I also understand this is not to be taken lightly and may take some time to build the trust required for such things. I also understand limits such as not showing faces, etc. I will send images etc in return as requested, of course.
I want to train you to experience new pleasures and humiliations - making you better at using all you holes and acting the part to your dom
I want a partner who is cool to chat casually and become friends, who is independent and not just a 24/7 slave.

What I'm NOT after:

DDLG. I don't want to treat you like a child or be called daddy.
RP or text-only interaction - It's important I get evidence of you being who you are and doing what is asked - I may as well just go to an RP subreddit otherwise. I'm not here to make-believe.
24/7 control - I want you to still be independent and have normal interactions outside of play times and tasks - I'm not super hardcore all of the time.
Cheaters - I don't want to be a homewrecker. If you have a partner and they consent to you talking with me, that may be acceptable, though.

About me:

I'm a 30 year old man from the west coast of Canada. I'm into hobbies like hiking, music production, stunt kites, and all the normal nerd shit like games of all types, RP, etc. I'm 5'7, with a normal build and slight dad-bod energy - about 200lb. I do repair work and drive a lot as part of it.

Kinks I enjoy include things like bodywriting, fellatio (The messier/deeper the better), anal, orgasm control, edging, public/risky tasks, and a lot of others. I have discovered I actually enjoy most aspects of watersports recently as well.

A few I don't enjoy are diapers, feet, and scat, and I'm sure other things that don't come to mind.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone 35 years or younger - it's hard to dom someone who has a decade more experience on the planet than you, after all.

If you want to play kinky games, I look forward to hearing from you!