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I am a relatively inexperienced sub in the Chattanooga/Knoxville area who would love to be with a longer term dom. I have tried in the past but The people just didn't match well with me or life circumstances ended up getting in the way. I Know enough about bdsm and have done some play a couple times to know the basics of how to safeword and when, the importance of aftercare and how it can be a little different for everyone, and CNC. An online dom would be lovely, but one who is local enough to visit would be even better!
A bit about me, I am a bisexual man with a Bachelors psychology degree looking to go back for a psych graduate program with a ton of random hobbies. I value self improvement super heavily and currently work out 5 times a week to try and improve my health and get into better shape, I have been going for almost two years now! I weigh 180 pounds and am 5'11/6'0 (I've been told either or multiple times now so idk which). I keep myself hygienic and like to keep my body shaved when I can. I value honesty super heavily and tend to be a bit too honest sometimes, but that also means that i ask questions when needed and dont hold in issues until they boil over! I also value relationships super highly and like having a few close friends or friend groups. I would like to be friends with my dom as well as being their sub :)
I have a lot of kinks and I certainly dont expect to find someone who is into all of them, but instead to explore whichever ones we both share. I am Big into the mental aspect of bdsm, things like conditioning, Gaslighting play, Hypnosis especially, power dynamics, Name calling, degradation, Mental/emotional sadism (a hard one but so satisfying and fun) and more! I also like Light bondage, Light impact play, Mommy dom play, Roleplaying, Feminization, Feet, Nylons, Latex, Denial, Overstimulation, Orgasm control, Pegging/prostate stimulation, CNC, and toys! There is a ton that ive never gotten the chance to try and I will generally try anything once and would love to learn about new kinks! I only have a few toys, being a prostate massager, a dildo, and a vibrating stroker.
My limits are scat, Blood, raceplay, and cuckholding (had a bad experience with it once)
For non kink stuff, I bounce around to a million different interests, so I know a little bit about a lot. I am big into cooking and cook whenever I can as well as trying to make new types of food whenever I find a good idea. I think im pretty good at this point, Maybe ill be a good maid one day hehe. I like to make mixed drinks and experimenting with that. I like working out and learning about exercise to get better at it, as well as working out with people since its a great time to hang out with people. I love video games and have played them since I was a kid. I recently got bigger into tabletop gamming as an adult and love games like dnd as well as more traditional board games. I am a massive psychology nerd. It's part of why I got the degree and learned about hypnosis as a kink. I could explain a ton of different biases and effects that I never use in day to day life, but they sure are interesting! I also search around for cute animal pictures constantly and always have some on hand! Capybaras are my favorite animal and I love finding new videos and pictures of them. In general I just love to learn and would love to learn about any new hobbies or interests.
If you liked what you read or had any questions then feel free to reach out! If you want or need a picture then I would be happy to share. I would love to talk about kinks, limits and everything else or even if someone just had tips for me! I hope you enjoyed reading through this and have a good Night/Day!
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