hi there, reader.
i’m a 21 year old gay trans boy looking for a dom! ideally i’m seeking a long-term monogamous relationship, but i understand that those take time to form and grow!
my ideal dynamic consists heavily of ageplay, puppy play, intox play, boot worship/stepping, hypnosis, cnc, somnophilia, LOTS of roleplay, and pain play. i also love kinks like primal/prey, medical play, and piss.
i’d love a dom that’s older than me, but 45 is the oldest i’ll date, sorry! i do find myself most attracted to men with long hair, tattoos/piercings, and deep/nice voices, but i enjoy all types of men, so don’t be shy! i greatly value and find intelligence attractive in a man, as well as emotional intelligence and empathy. gentleness and patience are things i find myself looking for as well.
for a bit about me, i’m going to say up front that i’m not skinny! i’m chubby, and i’m planning on losing weight once i get my mental health in a better, more stable place. speaking of, i do struggle with mental illness, including BPD. i become obsessed and clingy easily, and have a terrible fear of abandonment. i understand it makes me a harder partner to have, but i am medicated and getting back into therapy and such. i’m going into my senior year of university, and am loving it. i also present very femininely most of the time, and often get mistaken for a girl. i’m still figuring out how i’d like to present, so just know that. some things i enjoy are deer, the color green, renaissance faires, writing love poems, baroque paintings, video games, walking in nature, and hopeless romanticism.
hope to hear from you soon. <3
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