Hello...

Longish post alert... PLEASE only message me if you are UK based, FULLY single, and are only looking for a REAL LIFE dynamic. I have NO interest in married men, younger men or finding any form of online dynamic. Please be aged 30 - 45.

Kink... I currently only have a small amount of experience in BDSM, where I was previously restrained by a partner and had a riding crop used on me, as well as some spanking sessions and slightly rougher sex... those experiences unlocked something in me and since then I have craved nothing more than to be able to find a Dom who can guide me on my submissive and journey within a long term D/s dynamic...

I am 5'3, white, have shoulder length auburn hair, hazel eyes and wear glasses, I am curvy and have thick thighs and small boobs. I am attracted to older guys (30 - 45) who are tall, keep fit/in decent shape and have a full head of hair. I have very 'plain Jane' looks and like the thought of being used by and humiliated by someone much more attractive than me.

I am looking for a Dom who would be willing to take his time to slowly train me and build a D/s dynamic with me. A dynamic with rules, structure and discipline. A dynamic which is present both in and out of the bedroom, even in a subtle way. I have many kinks including - orgasm control and denial, breath play, pain, restraints, gags and blindfolds, rough sex, anal (virgin), CNC, nipple torture, impact play, edging, edge/fear play and humiliation. I am NOT into DD/lg, switching, pet play, vomit, scat, or anything illegal - other than these I am yet to find all my hard limits due to lack of experience. I am looking for a Dom who is kind, caring, strong and confident, and respectful but can be stern and strict when needed. A Dom who is not afraid to take the lead. Experience is a must. I have no interest getting involved with married men or joining an existing couple.

Vanilla... I live alone in a quiet little village in Oxfordshire. I work part time in an admin role. I enjoy spending my time socialising with friends, seeing family, cooking, baking, long walks, swimming, travelling and listening to music. I am very calm, patient, honest, understanding and I like to think a caring person. I always try to see the best in people, and will always do what I can to help and support others. I like to have a laugh, and would say I have a somewhat dry and at times dark sense of humour. I am autistic - there are a few posts about this on my profile.

Please have a look at my pinned posts on my profile for more information and if I haven't put you off, feel free to message me!

M x