Hello! 28 female in Georgetown looking for a life partner here. I am looking for an experienced dominant who is local (I am not interested in long distance only) and who will join me in a D/s relationship built on caring, understanding, playfulness, and communication - a relationship that I would want to be more than just BDSM as I don’t see myself working well as just a play partner or FWB in the long run.

About me: I am a 28-year-old cis, straight woman. I do my best to be completely honest even about my flaws and see communication as extremely important in this sort of relationship. I am overweight about 290 lbs, but I am constantly working on trying to lose that weight and become more fit and looking for someone to help motivate me to attain that goal.

I am very shy upon first meeting people and would like to take things slowly. My hobbies are many and tend to lean to the creative side though I have a few nerdy ones as well (like painting, MTG, and playing on my Switch). I love to write, especially erotica and I am also quite the bookworm and love to cuddle up with just about anything I can get my hands on although sci-fi and fantasy are my favorite genres.

As far as the kink scene goes, I am on the right side of the slash, fully submissive in the bedroom, with a need to please my partner. I have a little bit of experience from a few play sessions and a long-distance relationship and have done quite a lot of research into most aspects of BDSM. I am looking to expand my knowledge and put what I’ve read about into practice as I’d like to be a part of the kink community and just unsure how to get there. I have an affinity for restraint, blindfolding, and some impact play, but have always had a willingness to try new things and experiment. My kinks include bondage, impact play, forced orgasm, orgasm denial, sensory deprivation, toys, medical play, CNC, free use, and experimentation.

About the Relationship: I would like a very intimate connection with my Dom and am exclusively monogamous and am looking for a partner who is too. I think the relationship should be a give and take with a Dominant who is kind and firm and willing to work with me through my quirks and fears. I would like for things to move slowly giving us time to feel each other out and build a strong D/s dynamic and relationship. To be honest, I don’t know if the dynamic would ever get to being 24/7, but I would like to try to get as close as possible. I am not looking to ever have children, but marriage is on my list if it gets that far.

Contact: As I said before, I am quite shy before I get to know someone so I would like to start with electronic communication using text or email. I would like to move off of Reddit as soon as possible as both of the messaging systems are the worst. If you read this far and are interested please send a message with details about yourself and what drew you to my post. Low effort messages with just one sentence or ‘hey’ will be ignored.

Thank you for reading and have a wonderful day!