I'm not looking for something too committed, at least not at first. Both of us would be able to play around, just looking for an ongoing situation with a consistent sub and see how it goes.

I'm a bit of a soft dom, but can engage in rougher play when we are comfortable with each other. Always sure to talk about boundaries extensively and make sure consent is established for anything beforehand. Also lean towards being a pleasure dom. Love teasing orgasms out of a sub, especially through giving oral pleasure. Like I said, can get rougher, into things like spanking, hairpulling, slapping, degradation, etc. Even into cnc, but obviously that would require a LOT of discussion beforehand. Interested in becoming a rigger, but not one currently. Planning on getting lessons at a local sex club, so if you are a bit of a rope bunny, that could be fun to do together if you are willing to entertain a rookie. Not really interested in being a carer or brat tamer. No offense to brats or littles, just not my thing.

Also very much into group play. Would ideally like to bring in guy friends for threesomes and even gangbangs in the future. Also interested in MFF play, though that might be harder to set up.

Mutual attraction has to be there of course, but what's critically important is being able to communicate, and having compatible attitudes and values. Need someone who is low maintenance and independent (hence why I wouldn't be a great carer or tamer lol), and able to have mature discussions.

Not gonna post any pics, but could describe myself I suppose. 5'9" with a beer belly, hairy chest and a mustache. I'm relatively handsome, but not a model. Got 5 inches, above average girth.

Don't know how many responses I'll get to this, but thought I'd put it out there. If you respond, please put your age, location, a little about yourself, and reference that it's a response to the BDSM post. I use this account for r4r purposes, so I won't know what ad you are responding to otherwise.